i have a boyfriend that i have been dateing for about a year and a half and know he is starting to be a asshole after i had sex with him a week ago i dont know wut to do can and body give edvice
2006-09-21 07:26:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the best thing to do is talk to him about it. tell him how you feel. he shouldnt feel like he needs to be an asshole now that you've given yourself to him. explain how it's hurtful that he is being so disrespectful for no reason.
2006-09-21 07:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by C-Baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly how is he being an a hole to you? Is this the first time you both had sex together? Have you asked him why he is being like this? Open communication is everything in a relationship, tell him how you feel, and ask him stuff, find out for yourself were not him so we would not know why. Sorry and Good Luck!
2006-09-21 14:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just come out and ask him whats up? and why hes being so mean. You need to be careful, you know what? dont even give it to him again until he can learn to treat yuo nicely, and if he breaks up with you, thik about it, you can do better! You can find a guy who will treat you great, not be a asshole.
2006-09-21 14:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to cool out with him, may be he is just taking you for granted, don"t be giving yourself to him so freely, Try and find out what is the problem, after all you have feelings, also. Stop being a door mat for him, if he can't treat you right, leave him. Don"t you think you deserve to be treated better. Then if you do, find someone who will treat you with respect.
2006-09-21 14:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys change after sex comes in. You had plenty of time to get to know him, so you did the right thing by waiting as lng as you did. I would bring it to his attention. Let him know that if being physical with him is giong to change the basis of your relationship, then you guys should hold off on sex until he can straighten up.
2006-09-21 14:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is probably all he wanted this whole time. If he asks to have sex again, just refuse and see what he does. If he gets angry with you or tries to guilt you into it then that is all he wanted.
2006-09-21 14:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Little Flower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really hate to say this but sometimes guy you sleep with a guy they lose respect for you. some guys don't but for alto of men they don't see there girl in the same light as they used to sorry chick its hard to deal with and i hope yo get through it
2006-09-21 14:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to your convections . If he can't than it is not your fault. In the long run you will fell better about yourself.
2006-09-21 14:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by dgraham302000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to talk with him to find out what's going on
2006-09-21 14:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him with your problem. Don't let him treat you like this.
2006-09-21 14:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋