2006-09-21 07:25:43 · 9 answers · asked by tej 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
We don't lose them anymore than we lose other people. It's just that when you care about them more, you notice the losses more, so it seems like that. In reality, unless you run with a very dangerous (or unlucky) social circle, you lose about as many acquaintances, associates, etc. as you do close friends. All the losses are unfortunate- it's just the close ones that hurt the most.
2006-09-21 08:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The loss may be attributable to difference in realities, expectations and perceptions, as no two persons are of the same harmony in difference or likeness through time for eternity. When perception, expectation and the make up of experiences gets ahead or falls behind immeasurable realities of the individual, previously convergent paths, perceived or real, or both, are no longer the case.
This is divergence may be hastened by inferences and indications, whether pointed out or withheld.
So is it:
the loss of a physical construct, the person, or;
the idea that the loss of a person is real, or;
the loss of a set of ideals and/or familiarity that is loved embodied in a physical construct, that is lost ?
Other than the cause of self differences, it may be the self, not the subject matter of loss, that has shifted its disposition. Were the eye of the beholder see this trait of divergence, would the choice be made to alter course to align with a, at best perceived position of the "people we love most"?
That, can be answered in numerous ways the beholder chooses to determine, assuming the notion of perfect determination exists.
2006-09-21 08:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by pax veritas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off we all will eventually lose the people that we love the most, or they will lose us....but I really don't know that we truly realize how much we love someone until they are gone.
Also, I think that we are on this earth for a reason and I believe the people who are taken away have most often contributed a great deal to the world and have in part met their purpose on earth.
2006-09-21 07:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by vahalla7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the" most" is an extreme....Love the most initiating fear to lose...and what you fear you'll face sooner or later/.. Love is Divine quantity cannot be more or less...but it have countless of forms. If you just simply love without preferences anything (for averything has a season) you'll never lose...One extreme creates another, opposite one, it is a Law.
2006-09-21 07:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Oleg B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's never happened to me. My parents have died, my brother has died, my wife has died. But so have millions of people. That's life, not loss. If by losing them, you mean they walk out of your life then maybe you just need to treat those who you love better.
2006-09-21 09:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the feeling of love.
2006-09-21 07:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you have, the more you stand to lose.
That's life.
2006-09-23 16:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because everybody dies sometime, and nearly everybody has at least one person who cares for them.
2006-09-21 07:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why, but it sure hurts
2006-09-21 07:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋