if nobody where never to found out......
would you do it? and why??
2006-09-21 07:25:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
God would know. Loving someone and then cheating on them would mean you don't love them. You don't cheat on the one you love.
You Don't compromise your character for a few hours of what seems like fun now. But it won't seem like fun later.
If a friend cheated you out of money you would no longer be friends with them. What makes cheating on your love okay then.
2006-09-21 08:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on someone once and totally got away with it. And even though the guy I cheated on was a total jerk to me I still felt bad. I didn't feel it was right for me to get back at him that way, so instead I broke up with him in the middle of a party at his house and everyone heard, cause I was yelling! I would never do it again, because I don't ever want to feel that way again.
2006-09-21 14:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if no one ever found out, God would know. And what you sow you reap. If you don't believe in God, remember, "What goes around comes around." It will come to bite you in the *** real good. I know. I've seen it many many times. So no, I wouldn't, the guilt and the price isn't worth it. If you are thinking of cheating, go to the problem, not the band aid. If you must sleep with someone else, get a divorce first!
2006-09-21 14:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by kntrygrl38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends..what are the circumstances surrounding your decision..is it just out of lust...is your spouse cheating on you? If it's just something to satisfy your needs you need to think twice about it. Would you like if it was done to you..what are some of the consequences that may occur from it? Sometimes **** happens but to try and potentially hurt someone u are supposed to love is never cool. As we grow older....and committ to relationships..we have to understnad that to give into every urge will lead to no good. After u do it this one time...the next time u meet someone....will u want to do it to? Will it be a never ending cycle? Think about your decision wisely and the do what u gotta do...good luck!
2006-09-21 14:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mel-Kae . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys and most women would cheat if they knew they would never get caught. Its the feeling of discovery and excitement of the forbidden act that makes them do it even if they know they would be found out. Women want to feel attractive and sexually desirable to others and men want to make conquests.
The forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest.
2006-09-21 14:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't cheat, but what would be fun is to just go out for drinks with two of my ex's and catch up with them - find out how they're doing, laugh about the good times we shared, and then go on my merry way. Before I got married, I kept in touch with several of my ex's - we'd meet for drinks and things like that. It was fun because I got to find out how they are and what's new with them and in their lives -- now I have no idea what's going on. I miss all the gossip. :) But I'm glad I'm married because I've got a good guy!!
2006-09-21 14:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a person would ever be in a position to be absolutely sure no one would find out. So who knows it would depend on so many things the guy, the place, where you were at in present relationship etc. etc. I don't think anyone can say for sure that they would or wouldn't. I would hope that I could say no.
2006-09-21 14:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you cheat, you are really cheating on yourself. Let your conscience be your guide. Would you feel good about yourself if you did? If it doesnt bother you, then do the right thing and tell your spouse and get out of the relationship.
2006-09-21 14:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would never be able to look my husband in the eyes if I cheated on him. Plus I made a commitment to him and to God, one I plan on never breaking!
2006-09-21 14:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheat a lot. I have a regular girlfriend in my hometown and cheat whenever I am out of town. Its awesome.
I just celebrated my 17 year anniversary, so while dysfucntional it works.
2006-09-21 14:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋