supposed you are a married man you have a cordial realtionwith your wife there is some quarrel over a issue that you think is petty suddenly your wife gets angry and slaps you how was tgat
2006-09-21 07:24:58 · 24 answers · asked by ilasun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you get her that angry, there if a bigger problem than you think. she may have a hidden resntment for some other thing you have done.....or you may have done something very out of line and you have hurt her badly.
2006-09-21 07:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't take it very very seriously. i know you must have felt bad, but thik what if you would have done the same thing.
just think that at that time you made her so angry and she lost control on herslef and did this thing. i am sure she must be feeling terribly bad of herslef after slapping you. she didn't do it intentionally, but you youself sad that she was very angry at that time.
you said you a cordial realtion with your wife, so i would suggest is speak to her openly and tell her that you felt it very bad and it should not happen again and she should apologize to you for the same.
Don't take suggestions for this from others cause they will say whatever comes in their mind, but end of the day its your marriage and not their's, so think calmly and then react.
2006-09-21 21:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Hidimba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed off! There is NEVER a need to hit someone! Personally, I think it's pretty immature of her to slap you, and I would let her know you won't take that anymore! If she can't find any better way to let you know how she feels without hitting you, I would consider leaving her! I was brought up that a man shouldn't hit a woman, however, I believe if a woman hits a man, a man should be able to hit her back!
2006-09-21 07:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by cey12000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah a god sent gift. It must have been coming to you. Thank yourself for the small mercies of the god. At least it is your own wife who slapped you. What if your neighbour's wife ? or your boss's P.A., had slapped you ??Dont brood. No one saw you getting slapped. Relax. imagine it was a fly she was trying to move off from your face. Relax.Take it as a healthy sign that she loves you and is mad about you. Or if you are from say farmers/butchers/drivers, family go slap her left and right to settle scores.
2006-09-21 11:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Haresh Punjabi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My relationship is as sweet as it gets, we've been marry for 5 years and in this time i've been slap only once and to be fair it was my fault and the fact that i didnt know what i did wrong at first makes me a stupid men.
2006-09-21 07:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by jmg559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not called for. just because she's a woman does not make it okay to hit you. it's abusive and she clearly lost control of herself. it does not matter what the argument was about. if a man did that, oh my gosh, spousal abuse! well, she was out of line. now, if she is in the throes of labor, contractions so painful that she's turning purple, then maybe a little slap is nothing. but clearly that was not your case. i actually knew a guy who had an abusive girlfriend! he wasn't a small man either. she'd punch him in the arm or slap him when she got really angry. he eventually left her. because abuse is abuse. it is unacceptable.
2006-09-21 07:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♥2323vsb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets reverse the role here, If you slapped her what would the consiquences be. No one has any right to put there hand on some one else like that, wife or not!
2006-09-21 07:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She slapped you because you probably weren't listening to her and taking her seriously. You think the subject was petty obviously it was pretty important to her.
2006-09-21 07:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men take for granted what women take seriously. Next time she wants to have a talk then listen to her. I mean, come on...is it so hard to pull your attention away from the t.v. long enough to listen to what she has to say instead of just hearing it?
2006-09-21 07:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Zach S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't tolerate anyone slapping me
so u shouldn't tolerate it there is no excuse for her to lay a hand on u in a violent way i would just dump her ***
If she is not smart enough to be mature adult and talk things out than she isn't worth having around she oviously doesn't respect u time for a break
2006-09-21 12:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋