will regret moving.Dont have proof but i think she is interested in somebody else
2006-09-21 07:20:38 · 14 answers · asked by Azziz G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
O.K. What???
She wants to move and you don't, why move just b/c of an argument and over what? Does she want you to move out and her stay?
You "think" she is interested in someone else, your thoughts will ruin things and thinking will eat at you...
Relax and run the lease out, that is the way it is, you both agreed to move there so there you will stay, make future plans to move and be ready to move when the lease is up.
you have no proof of her cheating so let it go and face your insecurities be honest and communicate with a clear mind be mature this is a marriage....
2006-09-21 07:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What explanation does she give for wanting to move? If it sounds suspicious or isn't realistic, I'd hold back on moving, at least for now... If you really suspect she is having an affair, get your proof before moving. You might be right - you will regret it. :(
2006-09-21 14:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask your wife to go to a marriage counselor. Get your feelings out in the open in a moderated setting. Do this befor any new moves or changes.
2006-09-21 14:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by BOISE_DD 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whats the problem in moving , next time make sure ure both on the lease,
think of the marriage as long term, Divorce is not an option
iron things out
if you thing seperating / divorcing will setlle it you will nevre make a 100% effort
2006-09-21 14:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by gods_chief_pilot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ask her why she wants to move, if you have not already asked. Tell her that you'd rather wait until the
lease is up before you move to another place.
Good luck & if things get worse I'd see a counselor.
2006-09-21 14:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage counseling
2006-09-21 14:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you married? It sounds like you do not trust her. It also sounds odd that you do not want to move with your wife.
Get some help or counseling because things do not sound good.
2006-09-21 14:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by lady_reed_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, is the new place cheaper, nicer etc what are the benefit. You can get into an argument where you are now.
2006-09-21 14:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by delta s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U suspect she is seeing someone else she probably is.
2006-09-21 14:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a marriage counselor.
2006-09-21 14:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋