Not your boss but co-workers you have to interact with, that are jealous of you and try to sabotage your employment? And constantly pushing your buttons until you just want to smash your keyboard into there face?
2006-09-21 07:18:20 · 13 answers · asked by yp_toi_plainfield 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
just remember that your paycheck doesn't increase or decrease depending on how many friends you have made at the end of the day. However, it does pay the bills. I dare you to give them THAT much satisfaction of being out of work and miserable. Bottom line: you can't control what people say about you / try to do to you. You can only control your reaction.
2006-09-21 08:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would read this book "Working with you is killing me".
"We call the experience of feeling caught in an emotionally distressing situation at work being hooked. If you find yourself consistently having a strong negative internal reaction to someone or something in your work environment, you are probably hooked. Emotional hooks vary widely from person to person and job to job. Something as trivial as the nasal tone of a colleague's voice or as weighty as a manager's personality disorder can hook you. A hook can be as simple as a rude remark or as complex as professional sabotage.
If you are a living, breathing, thinking, feeling, normal human being, there's a good chance that you've encountered people and circumstances at work that hook you. In some cases, the incident may generate only mild irritation. In other cases, you may reach a point where you feel like the person or situation is literally killing you."
2006-09-21 14:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by jodimode 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem at my previous position and I wanted to do that too, but now I lost my position because my boss ended my position 2 weeks before he left the department. Anyway, I ignored them. If you can't, then hopefully you can find another job, because I am having trouble. Good luck.
2006-09-21 14:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it is hard on you try to be positive about the situation.Most probably they hate you because you are a threat to them coz maybe you are good in what you do or much success full than they are.Ask your self whether you have wronged any of them and apologize and if you are a believer ask God to help you and am sure he will be there for you.
Good luck
2006-09-21 14:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by jingirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case it's probably best to go get another job. If there are more than one co-worker who's making your work environment miserable, telling the boss won't help in the long run.
2006-09-21 14:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by shawn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are ready for a new job. Sabotage your employment how so ? I am sure you are ready for a new job then. Good luck hope it happens.
2006-09-21 14:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. If you don't like the job just stay until you find a better one. If yo don't like the people but enjoy the pay then just ignore them. Nowhere in the employee manual does it say that you have to socialize with other employees...Think about it
2006-09-21 14:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Grace1908 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is exactly how I feel! Are we the same person? I just posted a question very close to this. I am going to watch this one. Sorry I don't know what to do either so I am not expecting any points.
2006-09-21 14:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by jeannie_brim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be the same person Jeannie. Like, some parallel universe or somethin, u know? Good luck.
2006-09-21 14:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by dredine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your supervisor or HR department if needed to resolve the issue if it can't be resolved find a new job.
2006-09-21 14:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by crystal b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋