I jusr read someones answer to a question she said her feelings got hurt on answers and someone replied with," My feelings dont get hurt, I am too shallow for that." Is that true> becasue if thats the case I need a class in how to be i little shallow,I too get emoitional and tale things personally, yes my shildhood was a sheltered one. I dont want to be shallow in order to get over this, I just dont want to be as emotional either, I need some thinck skin, How do I grow it???
2006-09-21 07:07:12 · 8 answers · asked by chula1 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Ideally, a balance would be good. A place where you could feel another's pain and be objectve about it. However it's rare to find someone with that special ability.It can be cultivated to a degree, as doctors do it.
My advice is be yourself and feel your emotions. Then very deliberately lay them on the shelf and go on with life. This doesn't mean be callous or uncaring. Just learn to care for others and yourself both.
2006-09-21 07:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well am sorry to hear about ur pass but everyone get hurt somethings u may not admit it and u may not even notice ur hurting but u r only when ur in ur quiet moment and when u think back of all the things that happen there're is where the hurting begin.Maybe when u get hurt u don't let it bother u it can also be y ,or maybe like me u don't care what no one thinks.u need to be emotional in some things but sometime u have to control ur emotion feelings an act in accord with what going on ok
2006-09-21 07:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by ciara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What we call "hurt feelings" is the pain of realizing that one's image of oneself is not supported or validated by another; the pain of realizing that I may have an unrealistic, vain or ignorant image of myself and that it might be obvious to others. It's the pain of feeling like a fool for not knowing myself as well as I need to and making myself susceptible to others who can see how lacking in self-knowledge I am
2006-09-21 08:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by lidlolady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that it's just a front. That person who said that probably blocks their feelings or actually is very sensative and just pretends to be untouchable. Or if they actually are shallow enough and have been for long enough then maybe they are, and that's just SAD. =(
2006-09-21 08:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by sac_baby_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change who you are. The last thing this country needs is one more shallow, unfeeling person. You just celebrate the emotional, feeling person that you are.
2006-09-21 07:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's incorrect with a passionate disliking of the mullet ??? that is purely approximately as undesirable by way of fact the bowl decrease... You tell me who injury your emotions and that i will beat em up for ya ! Compact for me.... the fewer I see of myself the extra effective..
2016-10-01 05:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all can be hurt no matter who or what you are,and no matter how much you have or don't have.
this is just a part of life.
2006-09-21 08:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by DENISE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone gave me the most hurtful and best advice EVER...GET OVER IT!
2006-09-21 07:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋