this is my first marrage of 5.5 years and his third. He is planning to uptain a lawyer with help from his friends and has not discussed anything with me.
2006-09-21 06:56:59 · 18 answers · asked by sandih 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a good attorney
2006-09-21 06:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by holden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to brace yourself. This is his 3rd marriage and you should wonder what happened with the first 2? This guy has a pattern and he is about to make you a part of it with divorce number 3. Why else would he be looking for a divorce lawyer? And to think, he didnt even have the audacity to tell you! Shame on him. Get ready girl!!
2006-09-21 07:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be certain that he wants to end your marriage. If he has been through two prior divorces, he would probably be using the same lawyer and not be seeking a new one through friends. Dont leap to conclusions. But if he does concede that he's seeking a lawyer, you better get one very quick.
2006-09-21 07:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband if he is happy about the marriage. if he is then ask him why did he obtain the divorce lawyer. Only your husband knows the answer to your question.
2006-09-21 07:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how you found out, but he's your husband, ask him! If he wants another divorce then you might want to get an attorney yourself pronto!
2006-09-21 07:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just ask him and also start a search for yourself to find a lawyer.
2006-09-21 07:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did his friend tell you that? Yes get an attorney too.
2006-09-21 06:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 - protect yourself, get a lawyer, set cash money aside
2 - ask him
Good luck.
2006-09-21 07:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch. find your own attorney quick.
how did you find out anyway?
and just a thought...if he was divorced twice before, doesn't he already have an attorney?
2006-09-21 07:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if everything between the two of you has being fine, why worry? don't jump to conclusions yet, wait and see what happens. i wish you all the best.
2006-09-21 07:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by hunnyphyll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋