We were at a party and our long time freind was inside the house reading a book, when my husband kept saying to her ' come out here" I was getting fed up because he wouldn't listen to me. Then he kept going in the house to talk to her. I went inside and told him to plug something and he had to pick up an extention that was next to her. But when he picked up the cord he tapped her on the leg and looked at her as he went up. I got so mad because I knew he did it on purpose so I took him to the bathroom and he denyed the whole thing. I was furious! He said that he never tapped her. and I was just...with out words because I know what i saw. What would you have done?
By the way i ignored him the rest of the night and now it's in the past but when we get together I just seem to watch his every move around her. i don't want to say i'm jelous it's just the things that he does. I don't feel they are appropiate.
2006-09-21 06:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by veronica m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to be more specific..it wasn't with a cord that he tapped her it was with his arm and I'm not being jelous like I mentioned..it is about respect! That's why i wanted to ask this question. If you don't have advise don't waste my time. To: A_sexual???
2006-09-21 12:03:55 · update #1
Life is short, do you really really want to waste your and his energies on something so petty?I say save that kind of negative energy for the HUGE issues that deserve it. Cool out, live a calm peaceful serene life unless stress in absolutely unavoidable.Women seem to need chaos from time to time ,Why is that?
2006-09-21 07:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman is always right that what they say but isn't it strange a bit that one should get upset when loving husband taps long time friend accidentally on leg, or wants to convince her to come out and join crowd. Scolding him for something so minute makes no sense and will not do any good for your relation, he will resent you. Are you are obsessed with the though, that he is interested in your friend? So talk with him without anger, explain your feeling and ask for consideration.
2006-09-21 13:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that if you are newly married maybe your still inseecure about your new relationship, and if youve been married a long time, seems you think he may be looking elsewhere out of boredom. I have been married 20 years, and we had our share of these issues, and i learned, is it worth loosing my man over, or is it worth not trusting each other? He comes home to me every day and night and I keep squawking in his ears, he wont want to, so evaluate his other actions, not just that incident, and REALLY think of how much you love each other and instead of pushing him out the door, attract him with more sweetness and do more for him to make tap YOUR leg, *WINK* GOOD LUCK AND HANG ON!!!!!
2006-09-21 13:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ARE being jealous. Bloody hell, he tapped her leg with an extension cord and you are freaking out! You said these people are your good friends. He was just teasing her. He probably feels comfortable with her and really meant nothing by it. get a grip. He probably denied it because he already knows how insecure you are!
2006-09-21 13:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all the fact that he wouldn't stop talking to another woman to come to you is the real problem. He is "looking" and if he hasn't already cheated its not to far off. Don't be dumb you know whats in your heart and you already know Who he is inside the part he hides from you as a woman you "feel" it don't you so stop ignoring it face it and move on.
2006-09-21 14:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by oilsbycarr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get proof, If you don't have proof you have nothing,but hear say and he wouldn't admit it anyway. Men will go down dieing before they say they are wrong. He has to want to change or admit what he's done otherwise your stuck.
2006-09-21 13:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm yeah that is disrespect and he obviously dont know nothing about that. me personally i would either say chill out on the flirting or be ready for a divorce. im sure hes not the only man that wants you.
2006-09-21 13:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by LiL MaMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure that my husband and I stop attending functions where she was also a guest....and if I was hosting the party, she would not be on my guest list.
2006-09-21 13:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by happygirl70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up.
2006-09-21 13:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no respect for you and she should have said something to him about what he did hes a cheater and you will never be happy get rid of him.
2006-09-21 17:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋