Ok i posted a question yesterday needing help with my boyfriend. It seems like he is avoiding me. i am a senior in highschool we r suppose to go to college together but i dont know now. he even proposed to me we've been together since we were freshmen why is he doing this
2006-09-21 06:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he's just realizing that he is a t the prime of his life now...meaning when he goes off to college there will be soo many places to go, people to meet and things to do and I guess he's not sure where you fit into that which explains how he's avoiding you. Talk to him about how you feel..maybe his focus is just on graduating and going off to college. But l would still let him know how I feel about him and remind him that you and him are going to go thru it together.
2006-09-21 06:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very difficult time in both of your lives. From personal experience, give him space. High School is like recess. Remember when you had to move up from elementary to Middle School and you missed having recess? Well, after you graduate you are going to miss the laxed feeling of HS. All I can say is that you might make it with this guy, and you might not. Live for yourself first at this point in your life. What are you going to do if you follow him and then things don't work out for you? When you get married, that is the time when you start looking out for both of your interests. He has a lot on his mind right now, and guys are horrible at expressing themselves, especially when you are trying to force him. He will eventually come around. Guys love it when you are not the nagging girlfriend, but the supportive and caring kind. He obviously likes you alot or he wouldn't have preposed, just give him the space and be there.
2006-09-21 06:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give him the time he needs and let him be. If you bother him it is only going to escalate the problem. It seems to me you really do not know what the problem is. That might be the one and only thing you need to talk to him about. You need to find out what his problem is and see if it is something that can be solved. As I said before maybe he just needs his time and space.
2006-09-21 06:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me when i was a senior. let him go!! there is a whole big world out there full of people, get out there and live your life without being tied down to your "high school" boyfriend. you're going to meet so many amazing people and you're going to be so grateful that you were able to experience so many different things and people and places. if you're truly meant to be with him then ya'll will find your way back to each other, but for now get out there and experience everything that live has to offer or you're going to regret it for the rest of your life!!
2006-09-21 06:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares why he is doing it, you need to ask yourself why are you dealing with it. I would just move on and stay focused on your goals. You will be many like minded young men at college. Keep moving forward with your goals and you need to keep your options open. Don't waste your time on him if he wants to play games, let him find someone else to play with. Good luck
2006-09-21 06:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called "bigger better deal" He is going off to collage and wondering what else is out there and if he is in it with you he cant explore collage girls happens all the time honey
2006-09-21 06:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by oilsbycarr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life and forget him...the only thing constant in life is change.. Be who you ought to be. Maximize your potentials
2006-09-21 07:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by Deji O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young for all this drama maquerading as "love." move on, get your college degree and then think about getting married.
2006-09-21 06:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space.
2006-09-21 06:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by cuteteddy761 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's psycho!!!!!! run away as fast as u can and go to college in another country if u want to live!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 06:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Shnitzel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋