I told my boyfriend where i was going and who i was going with and he could call me and all that other wonderful stuff so he can be up my ***..but i don't care that one night he still won't let me go..what should i do we've been together for almost a year and i love him im plannin on getting his name on my arm n he is getting mine on him but i have no idea what to do...plz help
2006-09-21 06:28:31 · 29 answers · asked by M<3 J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Is up to you. I just want to share with you something that happened to me. I was a control freak when I was dating. Yes I was just like your boyfriend now. But this is no life. It is so hard to always be wondering where your love one is at? I gave my boyfriends a real hard time. They were running away from me all the time. I ended up lonely and insecure. I found the right man for me. I almost make him go crazy, he really wished to find a nice woman to love and respect. He wanted the perfect girl becuase he was perfect too. I mean he was so nice, caring, loving and responsible. But I didn't realized it until it was too late. I almost lost this guy. I was destructive to myself and others, make them feel bad and giving them hard times over anything. I was so jealous of everyone, even relatives, friends and well, you name it. I didn't trust anybody! This is no life for me and for the person I love. So, my point was this, I changed because I didn't wanted to loose this guy. Yes, it happens, I change, I am no longer the same jealous control freak I was. I now trust him and love him. We got married 7 years ago. He can go anywhere he wants to and me too. We both can go anywhere we want but we want to be with each other. See, now that I no longer want to control him. He wants to be with me even more. We love each other so much but we are free, to do our own things too. We trust each other 100%. This is life my friend. And we are so happy. So, he can change if he really loves you and he doesn't want to loose you.
2006-09-21 06:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by chiquita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he loved you he wouldnt be suspicious all the time. You need to think about how loving relationships actually work.... trust and honesty are what make it work and if you dont have it then there shouldnt be a relationship. Trust me, I JUST broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years but the biggest reason I did it was because he always thought I was keeping things from him.... I just got bored quickly.
2006-09-21 06:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kaleigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tatoos are forever which is alot more than I can say for most men. You should not be in a relationship with someone who does not trust you. You need to be able to go out and do things without your boyfriend. Your friends will not keep asking you out if you keep turning them down. Please get away from him and enjoy the time being single. Love does not work without trust!!! I have been with my husband for 9 years now and I can go out with the girls for a weekend if I want. He watches the kids. He dosen't have to call and check up on me. He TRUSTS me. He can do the same. I TRUST him. Learn it now before you get in too deep and you have no life!
2006-09-21 06:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Your just asking for it and .....your going to get it
where there is no trust there is no love!!!!!
and if already your doubting your relationship ...which im sure wont turn out for the best dont gett no tatto.
a relationship is a pass throgh thing and a tatto last forever what are going to do when the relationship is over.
Look if you want a tatto save it till your married that way at least there is a better chance that you wont regret the tatto.
2006-09-21 06:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by missme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop and seriously think before putting his name on your arm. That is there for a lifetime, I have been with my husband for ten years and if he asked me to do that i still would not. Also trust is a major issue in relationships and if you dont have trust you really dont even have a positive relationship
2006-09-21 06:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by baby j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ought to he believe you once you do not think him? that's a 2-way street, my pal. Confess to him that you recognize what you probably did changed into incorrect and also you're sorry. tell him that you truly do love him and do not opt to lose him, and that you decide on both of you to artwork jointly to rebuild that believe. it must be achieved if you're both prepared to artwork on it. solid luck.
2016-11-23 13:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is VERY insecure and no tattoo is going to make him better. (bad idea to put names, just ask the tattoo guy) It is impossible to make someone trust you who doesn't trust himself to be able to keep you without force. What do you love about this guy anyway? Try to imagine yourself in 5 years living with the same frustration everyday......
2006-09-21 06:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by island girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he sounds controlling to me, u should probably have a talk to him first to see why he feels the need to always be checking up on you. If he loves you he will see its upsetting you and stop, otherwise you might need to think if he is worth staying for. Talk it through before u make any decisions but he sounds possesive to me
2006-09-21 08:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm first of all don't get no guys name on you inless i feel as if ya ll are married, and you stated it hasn't even been a yr no sweety don't do it you will regret. I'm not playin on that. and if he don't trust you its either: he has a guilty conscience, or the way i put it if there is not trust then there is no relationship. why waist your time. there will be someone that trust you. and believe me you will feel comfortable when you do.
2006-09-21 06:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by LiL MaMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, be cool and never confront with him on this. perhaps he didn't like u to be too close to the guy friends and that is so it is always good to hear what he has to say so that u could remedy the relationship. meanwhile, spend more time talking to him and this will help better understand. best wishes for u.
2006-09-21 06:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋