All the time in jail I sent her mother money for travil expences to visit. Sent Cards to her kids to send her. paid for all her cloths for workrelease. Wrote 2X a week .Sent money to her account in prison. She begged me to stand by her and I did now for over two years and she has not even driven 15 mi. to see me of thank me ! what do all you females think of it? All I wanted to do is show her that I was dependable and reliable. I thought I loved her. Is that any way to treat some one ? Please tell me what I did wrong?
2006-09-21 06:21:22 · 19 answers · asked by dboldt5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You were used.
Time to move on.
Don't be a dorrmat.
2006-09-21 06:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. Sorry to say but you were used. She's wrong and I hope you get over her and whatever you feel for her. You seem like an awesome person for that. Most people would have lost interest in someone in jail after a short amount of time. Good luck with future loves. Leave the jail birds alone
2006-09-21 06:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly,you did it 4 the wrong reason. You stand by a person from the heart not to show them that you can. 2ndly, People in jail seem to be more sensitive and emotional when they are away. And trust me it makes a person bitter If you didn't do anything to warrant this response then you should bring it to her attention. That is if you want a pat on the back. Now in my opinion you can voice your dislikes to her and go about your life. She will need you again. And I did 6 years so I know both sides of the dice. You didn't lose if you did it from the heart. Karma is real. Matter of fact, write 1 of her cellmates. She won't believe what she messed up.you seem to be in love.Did her going to jail change her?Or did it expose the real her?
2006-09-21 06:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kee Mike of Krymelabent.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately my friend people sometimes are that way, why I don't know. I know that sometimes it seems the more you give, the more they take advantage. So, if you are asking me, let her be that way, and if she doesn't have an excuse for not seeing you, if she comes over tell her you don't want to see her. It seems like she is using you, but you know the situation better than I do. It is very wrong that she is doing this, so move on.
2006-09-21 06:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 12:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by moncalieri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong, except put your trust and affection in the wrong person. Unfortunately there are people in the world who have little or no conscience. You were taken advantage of. Move on. Don't let it diminish your openness though - to close yourself off from pain is to also close yourself off to joy.
2006-09-21 08:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, you did everything right. You were too nice, as it appears she used you. You are better off without her. what kind of trash gets sent to jail anyway? Especially a woman who has kids. She is lower than whale crap.
2006-09-21 06:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong........ but just as many men use us women, you got used by a woman. I am sorry to hear it, but I hope you forget her and move on with your life. She is not worth you or your thoughts. Find yourself a good woman, one that doesn't get into trouble and one that works and lives and loves in her life.......... a woman who enjoys her freedom and the freedom to be with *YOU*. Blessed be.
2006-09-21 06:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong is there any reason she or anyone she knows given you. you may have been used or she just may not know how to express her thanks it always sound simple but think about it she may just be overwhelmed by the fact that you were there for her and is confused about what to do. how long has she been out? has she gone through this before with some other guy and did he stick around she may be afraid you only stayed around for ulterior motives
2006-09-21 06:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello is anyone home????????1st red flag jail!!!!!you deserve better than that. Next time spend time & money on yourself no one owes u nothing the more u give the more they'll take...move on
2006-09-21 06:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where you went wrong was getting hung up on someone of the type that would land herself in jail.
2006-09-21 06:25:06 · answer #11 · answered by Spud55 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋