My fiance and I are both extremley sick right now...we've been stuck at our apartment doing nothing but watching the same movies and coughing/sneezing our brains out. We've been getting a little tired and grumpy and were starting to show it to each other, how do I let her know that I'm not mad at her and that everything will be good again once we are healthy?
2006-09-21 06:15:06 · 18 answers · asked by limpkornrock7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Mostly just tell her that you love her - that she looks beautiful even though she may feel horrible. Wait on her hand and foot even if you feel horrible. Give her a soft kiss and a warm gentle hug.
2006-09-21 06:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by RT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Order in a pizza or whatever you two can handle. Light up some candles and let her know by telling her that although your a bit grumpy right now that you love her and are looking forward to feeling better so you two can go out and do something special. A nice hug will also reinforce this. Hope you both get feeling better soon.
2006-09-21 13:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her some chicken soup and buy her a box of puffs PLUS(not the crappy kind of kleenex). Offer to rub her back or draw her a bath with lots of steam...hehehehe(speaking as a female anyway...) Oh ya, make her some jello and use a heart shaped cookie cutter to make her a jiggler, nothing says love when your sick like heart shaped jello and chicken soup(not the crappy kind either, Mrs. Grass brand!)
2006-09-21 13:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by SB's cafe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has been said, "every morning i listen to those i love, especially to things they don't say" its the smallest things that hint your point. doing small things like listening to her when she says something, or helping out around the apartment, these things show you at least care. since you're both sick i wouldn't suggest buying flowers or anything yet maybe get her some cough syrup. but right now both of you have the right to be upset. being sick sucks. but if you say "i love you" every once in awhile it'll get your point across good enough. keep in mind too that you don't have to say something to prove anything. show it.
2006-09-21 13:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by Valhalla * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to know that your irritability is coming from your illness. Stop acting immature. You guys seem to be making this an excuse for how you really feel about each other. Be truthful to each other and to ones self. You guys need to talk.
2006-09-21 13:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
order flowers to be delivered to your apartment for her. heat up some soup for her. rub her feet. take a bath together. Understand that she probably feels really ugly and icky right now. Reminder her that you love her. Whenever I express how ugly I think I am to my hubby, he tells me to shut up and the he kisses.....and so forth. It works! Good luck!
2006-09-21 13:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a poem about how you feel about her, or leave her little love notes everywhere that she might go, like the bathroom's Kleenex box, the medicine cabinet, that would be cute! Or even though you feel like crap, cook her dinner/soup for her, venture out to bring her flowers even.
2006-09-21 13:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to a nice restaurant or something when you both feel better. It is hard being stuck in doors together.
2006-09-21 13:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold tell her sweet things. reminise on how you met and how you felt when you first saw her. tell her that when all is well you will take her to the movies and maybe shopping after (if your on a budget, offer to buy her watever she wants at walmart)
2006-09-21 13:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act out what you feel- showing is the best way to get a point across
2006-09-21 13:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋