we have been together for 5 months.... i have never given him any reason to think i would be unfaithful.... just want some opinions on what others thinks... thanks
2006-09-21 06:13:16 · 42 answers · asked by Carlette D 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
1) He is very insecure and it plays out in his dreams.
2) He is connected to you and you have cheated.
3) He is lying about the dreams to see how you respond.
Blessings )O(
2006-09-21 06:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just looked this up in my dream book and it says;
Dreaming someone is been unfaithful or having an affair can indicate the need for excitement and stimulation, it brings out your own feelings of sexual inadequacy and insecurity with emotional commitments it can also mean you are thinking of cheating at some other method in your life to make it more exciting, its a warning to stay on the right path and not to be dishonest in your daily life.
But basically I think he really loves you so much he is terrified of losing you, reassure him that all is well in your relationship and you will both have better nights sleep, good luck.
2006-09-21 11:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you?...just joking...I would hope that you're not if you are asking this question. Dreams are all about symbolism. Don't get all worked up or anything, but maybe he has been unfaithful, or was thinking about it. These dreams could be his mind's way of warning him or using his guilt to warn him. On the other hand, the mind's eye, (subconcious), knows all and will show you when needed. So, once you know where you and your boyfriend stands on the subject of cheating, you can deduce from there, or just let it go with the thought that it's just dreams. I personally, would look into this wholeheartedly. I believe that dreams are there to guide you and should not always be taken lightly.
2006-09-21 07:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by kharmaangel328 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a number of things
he could be cheating and his conscious is playing the reverse in his dreams
he could be testing your response
he is insecure in your reltionship
he has been cheated on before and sees some similarities in your behaviour
but the bottom line is it is a dream, and you can read as much or as little into it as you wish.
If you are not being unfaithful then I would suggest maybe a few gestures to try and ease his insecurity, if that is what it is, generally small public shows of affection work best because it will be his subconscious that picks up on it rather than actually him. Holding his hand when you walk, when in groups with males in, rest your hand on his leg, put your arm round him etc basically showing the other males in the group, openly, that you are his only.
2006-09-21 06:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight, He is having dreams that u are being unfaithful? They don't have to mean anything, Maybe he's so scared that ur gonna be unfaithful that he's having dreams, Just let him know that ur not planning on being unfaithful neither u need to be unfaithful, Just reassure him that u love him and that ur just thinking about him and no other man.
2006-09-21 06:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have had a girlfriend in the past who cheated on him and now he is thinking that you have or would do that to him. It is probably on his mind a lot right now and that's why it shows up in his dreams. Maybe you still talk to an ex-boyfriend? Or have a lot of guy friends? This makes some guys insecure. I wouldn't worry too much, this will pass over time when he realizes that you would never do that to him. Right now, it is still relatively new for the two of you. Only 5 months. This may be part of the process of trust.
2006-09-21 06:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Micah D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure you aren't really cheating on him. If you are, that defeats the purpose. Now here's a synopsis.
1) He could be insecure
2) he could have co-dependency issues
3) He might be cheating on you and needs a reason to think otherwise
4) You have talked about other guys in a way as to give him a notion even though you didn't notice it.
5) A friend of his, probably a guy friend, has a girl who is cheating on him and he thinks it could happen to him.
6) He might think he isn't satisfying you and as such dreams you leave him for someone else
7) Fear of neglect and living alone
8) Too much chocolate before bed (causes your insecurities and fears to come to life)
9) Thinks you are too beautiful to be with him and feels he can't control you.
10) You inadvertently hinted you needed something more and his mind immediately jumped to love.
I've been in a situation that they guy feels guilty he won't be able to satisfy you and so he dreams you cheat. It is so vivid he may even break up with you so beware and good luck. I hope your problem is solved quicker than mine.
Blessed Be.
2006-09-21 06:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by juniorteen312005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has some issues about the relationship, maybe he has had other girls in his past who may have hurt him and he thinks the same will happen with u.
He may be just saying this to see if u have a look that would make him think ur cheating.
He may be the one cheating and he's saying ur cheating in his dream to throw u off his tracks.
Maybe that he's way of trying to end the relationship( I hope it's not0 and I also hope that he's just having bad dreams because he's just having bad dreams.
1 more thing are u a really pretty girl? if so then he may feel that because u are so pretty that u may cheat on him.
When u have a really pretty grilfriend or a ver good looking mate sometimes it makes it hard to trust that they will not ceat and that others will come on to them to maket em cheat.
So if ur really pretty that could be the reason he thinks he has to feel this way.
It's not ur fault it's just that he's a little inscure
2006-09-21 15:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possible answers:
1. You are being unfaithful and he is intuitively picking-up on it.
2. He has fears that you will be unfaithful. If this is the case, he has insecurity issues. Maybe, without knowing it, you are feeding his fears.
2006-09-21 11:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Yngona D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreaming of someone's unfaithful has something to do with trust.
it is trust of himself and you. Dreams are pesonal things. If he dreams of you being unfaithful, that only means he does not trust you and/or himself. That's all. Sometimes it has nothing to do with the fact. Of course, facts contribute thought to the dreams. However, trust plays the important part of the dream.
2006-09-21 10:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋