I dont kno if this guy likes me but he keeps flirting with me and fooling around and hes goin out with my friend is it wrong to flirt with him back even if it is just in a lil fun and that were not going to end up goin out its just a little fun but i donno if i should flirt back after all they are a couple and she is my friend what should i do ?? drop the guy friend and tell her that he is flirting with other chicks or just fool around back and let her kno cuz i dont want to rune our friendship over this little thing cuz hes ma friend to and yea
2006-09-21 05:47:05 · 6 answers · asked by ~*!Tish!*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
like its not really flirting but we are really good friends and we fool around alot but i dont kno if he likes me and i dont kno if he takes the fooling around more then just fooling around i kno its wrong but i dont kno what to do i dont like him in the b/f way but it would be really sad to make them break up seeing as i was the one who put them together but like i said i dont kno if he likes me in that way cuz i really dont like him more then a friend and wat whould be the best way to make sure that i dont make them lose there relationship while i lose 2 friendships but he might just be a really flirty person cuz i kno i just fool around all the time but never bring it farther then friends
2006-09-21 06:02:44 · update #1
Some people just flirt and it doesn't mean anything that is just the way they are. But it seems to be bothering you, if you aren't normally a flirty person don't start. I would keep an eye on your friend and if she gets upset about it then talk to her about it, otherwise until you are sure of his intentions behind the flirting just assume it is just his nature.
2006-09-21 05:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by kna0831 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put an end to it. Why would you fool around with someone who's flirting with you and going out with your friend? Yeah, it's wrong to flirt with him back because all you're doing is encouraging him. You already know the answers to the questions your asking, and are really looking for someone's permission to flirt and more. If the situation were reversed and your friend was flirting with someone you were dating, would you like it? Probably not. This is a no-brainer. Doesn't matter if he likes you or not, you shouldn't be flirting with a friend's guy. Period.
2006-09-21 12:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny that you started this question with people who try to take other peoples guys, this tells me that you know what you are doing is wrong!!!! Don't flirt with your friends guy, that is just plain wrong, tell him to stop, guys come and go but girlfriends are the ones who have your back.
I would not get in the middle of their relationship at all, If he is doing her wrong, she will find out and you can be there to support her, but if you tell her that he is doing wrong, she may not believe you and that will strain your relationship also.
Good luck
2006-09-21 12:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's off limits if he's dating a friend of yours. Under NO circumstances should you even flirt with this guy. You'll give him the wrong impression and it'll end up becoming a bigger temptation than it is now. Do tell your friend of his actions so your hands are free and clear...she'll love you for it!
2006-09-21 12:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may have feelings for him or either you just flirt a lot. Either way if I were you I will not flirt because if you do not like him you will misled him and if you do like him it would lead to something. Do not write a check yo *** can't cash.
2006-09-21 13:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and ask her if it would bother her if this guy flirts with other girls.
2006-09-21 12:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by lilpinay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋