1st off, please dont laugh at this question its kinda stupid lol.I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and we tell eachother that we love eachother and we been unprotected having sex with eachother about 6 months and 2 days ago he wore a condom i was just wondering y would that be the 1st time since we been having sex? Another question is my boyfriend looks at other girls when we are together and its not like he just looks at them once or twice he like breaks his neck to look at them lol. What should i do about this, i told him how i feel about it and he still does it!!!??!?!
2006-09-21 05:43:44 · 12 answers · asked by MiSsLady1617 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, it's a good thing that he is wearing a condom...period.
Second, if he continues to do anything you don't like (including oogling other girls) even after you tell him it bothers you - then dump him - because he is not respecting you and your feelings.
2006-09-21 05:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by RT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in essence saying,I care enough that I dont want you to get a STD .But also, I care so little that I am sleeping with anybody (or everybody) that comes my way.Run girl! No man changes, he is a loser, let him go.Count your blessing that he showed you what his colors are in 7 months.I wouldnt even waste my time discussing it with him. He's only going to lie,so why even bother.
2006-09-21 05:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by lauren m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him tell him how u feel about the having sex with a condom, and about looking at other girls, if he gets mad then u dont need to be with him
2006-09-21 05:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a very, very kind and considerate man and does not want to infect you with whatever gift the hooker gave him.
Oh, looking at other girls-completely normal male behavior. It's hard-wired into his brain, just accept it.
2006-09-21 05:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too many "what if's" and "could it mean" for you to make a decision from what you wrote. My advice is ask him about using a condom and anything else you have doubts about and take it from there. You know if it is worth it or not.
2006-09-21 05:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red flag! Runnnnnn
2006-09-21 05:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, he had sex with other girls more attractive than you, and that when he had sex with that girl, he had STD, and he dont want you to have it, thats why he is wearing contraceptive.
or, he heard rumors that you are seeing somebody, and that he thinks you might be having sex with other guys rather than him, and that you have been tested positive for STD, that is why he wears contraceptive and looks at other positive potential girls who are qualified to be her future girlfriend when he will broke with you soon.
make up your mind, both of you
2006-09-21 05:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by ahhhlain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, u can tell him how u feel in a non confronting tone so that it can help to savage your relationship. but shouldn't go into sex prior marriage. best wishes.
2006-09-21 06:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got a STD somewhere and doesn't want to give it to you or you will finally know he is cheating on you.
2006-09-21 05:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by VeeateU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is doing some one else
2006-09-21 05:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋