2006-09-21 05:27:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hmmm...
I dunno. Maybe you should just ignore them at first, and them if they still are tryin to ruin your life, cuss em out.
2006-09-21 05:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally try to avoid all gossip and those who do it. When it starts, I leave the area, room, or wherever. I refuse to participate. Then I pray that the Lord will do whatever it takes to stop the person spreading the gossip so it doesn't do any more damage.
If I find out that someone has spread it to destroy someone else, I go to the injured party and tell them that whatever they were told isn't true, but a malicious gossip did it and try to help heal the situation. I also do not reveal who said it if I know who did it because then that will cause an escalation of hostilities which could result in violence.
The best defense against anything spread like this is the truth. Let the truth be known and the other will eventually die away.
2006-09-21 12:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you constantly tell them your business rather good or bad stop now. get caller id and avoid their phone calls. Spend more time with your mate that way you and them know where you are and what you doing and nobody else can come and tell you or them **** because you know what they are doing. In other words you guys need to get some new friends maybe ones with other things on their agenda like work, family, etc.
2006-09-21 12:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by mrsoliviawilson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are like that. Just ignore them would be what I would advise.
2006-09-21 12:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by parrothead2371 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rohypnol
2006-09-21 12:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋