me and my husband are wanting to have a threesome and I dont know how to get a girl to like me or pick her up we both decided on this one girl and she seems to be responding to my husband great and she knows what we want but she seems like she doenst know about me.
2006-09-21 05:16:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would suggest that you meet your playmate together. Before even getting into conversation with a girl, your husband should introduce you as his wife so as not to give the impression that he's after an on the side situation. In our experience, when my boyfriend meets the girl, she usually thinks he's lying about me or that he really wants a situation outside of me. When I meet girls, they usually have boyfriends/husbands but are looking for girl/girl situations without a man.. usually the guys are unaware of what the girl wants. We find it easier to go to swing clubs and meet people together. Even if one of us initiate a conversation, the other person is right there to verify what situation we're trying to cook up.
Your particular situation, I'd be leery about. There is no reason why the girl shouldn't know you. Even if there hasn't been much conversation between your husband and her but the first thing she should've known is that your man is part of couple and he can't dabble if you can't. I would leave this girl alone and take a step back to look at my husband and see if his intentions aren't right. Don't put yourself in a situation where you can't see trouble coming. Honesty is the most important thing with an alternative life style. If there isn't absolute honesty, you guys should not be engaged in polynogamous sex.
2006-09-22 07:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if your husband becomes addicted to threesomes? Will you start to feel that you are not enough for him at some point? You may be in the mood for just the two of you and he will always find ways to get another woman in your bed. Don't open your bedroom to this kind of drama!! You will regret it. Peace.
2006-09-21 05:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the swingers' club is the best suggestion.
There are also publications catering to swingers.
You might be putting your marriage at risk.
Don't do the GHB suggestion. GHB iin the correct amount s very pleasant and hangover free but must be dosed correctly and certainly not used an unsuspecting person. An overdose can easily lead to coma.
Trying going to a lesbian club and start a lesbian affair.
Invite your hubby to join you one night, and then tie him up and torture him.
2006-09-21 06:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as i know you should never go with odd numbers when having more then two people having sex. I mean threesomes are fun at first but eventually somebodies going to feel left out. With even numbers there is always somthing there for you to enjoy.
2006-09-21 07:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dk2432 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you enter into something that is open to your sacred sexual life, you take chances. You have no idea what could happen.. If this is what you want be careful of what you ask for.. I've known people through my past that have done this in all fun and games.... Many are no longer together and the rest have under gone couples counseling... If your asking these questions you shouldn't be doing it.
2006-09-21 05:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-09-21 19:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband you want another man insteid of a girl for the threesome.
2006-09-21 05:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by J.C. 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Everyone in the triangle must be comfortable with what you're doing. If theres any doubt dont do it and find someone else. I'm bisexual and I have a good relationship with my wife and boyfriend, everyone is honest and our love life is amazing.
2006-09-21 06:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Angelo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is the luckiest man alive! I say just go to a dance club and be upfront about it to a girl you like.
2006-09-21 05:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by SGTPepe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im up for a threesome, anytime, email me. i love threesoms, i also enjoy wathing too.
2006-09-21 05:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋