We were together for 2 years and it was the best 2 years of my life and we broke up. Now, he's married and I still email him whenever I can. I think about him all the time and i just can't let him go. Will it ever stop?
2006-09-21 04:59:03 · 12 answers · asked by wendylynn1009 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His wife doesn't know that we talk. he's even called me a few times.
2006-09-21 05:07:36 · update #1
Also...I am with someone else. I've been with my fiance for almost 4 years.
2006-09-21 05:08:21 · update #2
no stop everything your doing. if his wife doesnt know then you should not be talkng . bacause pretty soon he may ask to meet you in"private" stop talking to him. thats the first step in getting over him. your both holding on to somethig that isnt there anymore. as hard as it may be do not talk to him. be happy with the life you have right now. everytime you g to call him or email him dont . it may seem inoceant but its not. just go call one of your friends instead . or go for a long walk . trust me your feelings for him will eventually fade. be strong.
2006-09-21 05:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can because I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I still think about him all the time. I have another boyfriend now but I'm still not over him and I probably never will be. So I know how you feel and my answer is you won't ever get over you're first love.
2006-09-21 12:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Miranda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can move on if you let yourself. If I was your ex-boyfriends wife I'd be really pi**ed!! You've got to let this guy go and get on with your life. I don't think you ever forget your first love, or second, or third, or so on...you just grow up and realize no matter what that part of your life is over. It sounds like he moved on, you need to also. Quit emailing him!
2006-09-21 12:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets just put it this way...i dont think u will ever 4 get ur first love...but like some of the other people said make new memorys i mean its ok 2 talk 2 him..but not all the time maby just say hi every once in a while....
2006-09-21 12:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by AUBRIE L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are good reasons to remember but more better reasons to forget. As i see, he has moved on an you should do the same. You did walk through the doors of loneliness the first time and I am sure you can do it again. its time for you to another what you have given to each other.
2006-09-21 12:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by ang-pogi-ko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't ever really get over him, but this is NOT healthy. If your wife can't know about you, then this is a bad deal. Stop talking to him.
2006-09-21 12:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Milana P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear since he is married thus u must now keep up with him hoping for a secret affair. being a friend is ok but cos of your relationship with him b4 u need to keep a good distance from him. meanwhile stay and focus yourself in life priorities and when a good guy come, move accordingly.
2006-09-21 13:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stalking him and keep your good memories good. Move on and make more good memories with someone else.
2006-09-21 12:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you never forget that first Love.
2006-09-21 12:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by SANCY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say, but it don't go away but you should. Leave that woman's husband alone!
2006-09-21 12:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by Stasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋