help please??!! i dont know what to do..?

Question

ok well i know i am young (19) but i want to be preganant (because this may be the only time i can (family history))ok so when i was 15 i was on bc but i stopped when i was almost 17 i havent had it since.. i dont know why i havent gotten pregnant.. ive aske my doctors but they say oh your too young you dont want that now kind thing.. im starting to get worried that i might not be able to even concieve.. its been almost 4 years since the bc ive had sex different ways tried diferent things but i cant get my doctors help here which is upsetting me.. my bf now ive been with almost a year and the one before that almost 3 so i dont think it is them since the last one got his new gf pregnant a week later.. what specifically would i ask for to be checked to see if i can concieve? when would i be ovulating (i ask bc i've heard different things).. what other things could i try? what can i do??

Answer 1

Gosh hon--you're 19--you DO have time. Before rushing into this for any reason, go to the Dr and tell him WHY you want to have a baby soo badly right now. Hopefully your Dr will run tests, find out there IS NOTHING WRONG and you can relax and take your time.

Without being judgmental, please consider that a baby is a lifetime commitment--and a child deserves two parents. It sounds as though you tried to get pg with your previous boyfriend as well--and that obviously didn't last. And at 19 I can't imagine that you have more than a entry level job--so supporting this child will be a struggle (unless your independently wealthy).

My sister went through the same thing when she was in college--(she went as far as looking for a 'sperm donor') when she realized she'd never be able to finish school or start a career AFTER she had a child, she decided to wait.

Good luck in what ever you decide, but the first step is seeing your doctor!

Answer 2

I do think that you are too young and not married. But that is your decision and for you to make not for me to judge. I am sure that alot of people are going to judge you on this question. To answer you question. If your period is regular then you should ovulate anywhere from days 14 to 16. You are supposed to have intercores day 12,14,16,18. But it also depends on your body. Some of my friends say they got pregnant while on there period and some say at the beginning of the month. I have been ttc for a year and a half and nothing i was on BC for 6 years i really belive that it messed up my system . By law you are an adult and doctors can not hold back any information you want to get pregnant good luck. Please think about getting married

Answer 3

Most people normallly ovulate nine days after their period. I have been told that men get new sperm once a month and once it's gone they shoot blanks. Maybe your bf is running out of the good stuff before you ovulate. Try slacking of a little. Sperm will stay fertile inside of you for three days, so there's no point in overdoing it. You can have sex today, ovulate two days later and get preg with the sperm from today. I know it sounds crazy but my friend did a lot of research on this stuff. It took her a really long time but it happened. Praying also helps.

Answer 4

Well don't stress about it,that will DELAY ovulation.(O) There are fertility monitor's,there are ovulation kit's, you need to be charting you CM (cervical mucus) and you BBT (basal body temp) and you want a BASAL thermometer. Also NORMALLY around day 14 is O. Some good websites to chart and see when O may occur is yourdays.com and fertilityfriend.com I really like the gettingpregnant.com as it answer's ALOT of question's.
Good luck and like I said don't stress!

Answer 5

Relax!!!!!! They have those ovulating kits in the store to tell you when you're ovulating. It takes awhile sometimes, when i went off bc pills it was about 5 yrs b4 i got pregnant, but then when i did it just kept happening to me :-D a lot of the reasons i think is just stress

Answer 6

The next time you go to the ob/gyn tell them you want to run test on yourself. Just to make sure you dont have anything like endometroses ( i may have missed spelled this) or Hpv or Something wrong with your tubes etc so have a through physical! and GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

I would go see a gynecologist, they specialize in the woman's body. I know that one kind of testing is they shoot a die up in yor tubes to see if they are blocked. Good luck!

Answer 8

go to walmart buy a ovulation kit. it is like a home pregnancy test you just pee on the stick. it has instructions. it will tell you when you r ovulating. i used one it worked good. it helped produce a successful pregnancy.

Answer 9

first of all no Dr can tell you what to do..if there your Dr you should feel comfortable talking to them if you don't maybe you should try seeing someone else.