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All the guys i attract are possesive and controling like my ex. bf. I am nice , shy and quiet and have only had one real bf so whats the problem?

2006-09-21 04:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

My friends tell me i am not ugly or fat i weigh 107 pounds and 5ft6 is not that short and my face is clear.

2006-09-21 04:33:21 · update #1

My parents are very controling to point i feel sumothered they dont let me do anything and i hate attracting people like this!

2006-09-21 04:36:06 · update #2

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its becasue you are nice and quiet and shy....they know you dont stand up for yourself and are easy to control. guys love that ****.

2006-09-21 04:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

They say you look for one of your parents in a partner. Obviously you grew up in a controlling environment and that is what you are comfortable with. I too grew up with 2 controlling parents. 28 years later, I am getting out of the relationship and trying to eliminate people from my life who I can see the signs of controlling behavior showing through. There are a lot of them. People who act controlling actually actually have lived lives where they felt powerless and they smell an opportunity when it arises to control to give them the feeling of power they lack. Try and detect it early on and get out of the relationship before it goes too far. You deserve to be treated equally and to be heard. Get some therapy if necessary. I do. It's helped me take unhealthy relationships, end them and just say, "next…" to the billions of other fish in the sea.

2006-09-21 11:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Oh Wise One 2 · 0 0

I think these guys have radar. I attract geeks, fat dudes and guys with no teeth and I'm not barf material. The problem does not lie with you, but with them. Just be selective and really get to know them before you decide to start dating them. Out of a hundred bad relationships there comes one that will blow you away. when you get there, you'll know it and keep him.

2006-09-21 11:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0 0

You are shy and quiet they will seek you out because of these traits. If they want to be controlling they will not look for someone who is outspoken and sure of themselves.

2006-09-21 11:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by ~♥Aimee♥~ 3 · 0 0

attrack? THATS MY WORD. I made it up three months ago. It's when someone is attracted to attacking things. :p

Hey, give me a break, i need SOME word to describe myself

haha

boom boom tiss

2006-09-21 11:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by Zen 2 · 1 0

probably you have had problems with your father or your mom and you need somebady to control you.....thats what the psicologist says......so you are looking the wrong type of guys

2006-09-21 11:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by haki 5 · 0 0

deep seated low self-esteem that you aren't even aware of. Ask a friend if she sees this in you.

2006-09-21 11:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0 0

something from the way u were brought up.....i find plp that are just like my fater was and is with my mom

2006-09-21 11:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer m 3 · 0 0

love are not constant..... love will come to those people are kind.... hope u all the best.

2006-09-21 11:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by pin 2 · 0 0

u should not be shy... they r dominating u... u should tell them u r big enough to know what is gd for u and to whom u should talk and wat to do n explain to them not to be so possessive

2006-09-21 11:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Rose 6 · 0 0

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