hi, i'm a virgin girl and my boyfriend used to put two fingers in me..i want to know if it would be too different to that when having sex...i mean, when he inserts his penis (instead of his fingers)
2006-09-21 03:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
well it does hurt a bit but also means if you are tense its gonna hurt so you have to relax as much as possible and make sure he wears a condom that's the first thing OK . good luck
2006-09-21 03:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by cheggsy_davies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, having sex and fingering are different, to me it's different anyway because when a guy inserts his fingers it doesn't hurt that much. For me it didn't. But when it came down to inserting the penis...oh MY did it hurt! I was in pain the first I had sex. But it gets better as your body gets used to it. Just tell your boyfriend what you like and what you don't. Hope I was some help for you. Good Luck!
2006-09-21 10:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he knows what he's doing, he'll know how ready you are before he puts it in. I was 21 my first time and it didn't hurt at all, nor did it bleed. I attribute that to my boyfriend being 25 and experienced. Just don't do it before you are ready. If you are this nervous, you aren't ready for sex.
2006-09-21 10:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am i gurl i have had sex 2 times with my current boyfriens we have beed dating for 2 years and the first time i had sex it hurt but not alot only like the first 5 times he put it in then it started to feel good.............but my personal advice is to save ur virginity it will feel better about have sex when u are married
2006-09-21 10:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by hugeflirt4eva 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly sometimes it does hurt more and sometimes it doesn't. There's no real answer for you, only you will know this. Just make sure your ready to have sex.
2006-09-21 10:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Cait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're relaxed and willing, it shouldn't be bad at all. Just make sure he takes it slow! Don't rush straight into it, take your time with lots of foreplay. Good luck!
2006-09-21 10:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts if the guy do not know what he's doing and he is not concern about you. so before you do it, have a long heart-to-heart talk with your BF and be open about your fears and what you like. but i strongly suggest that do it when you're married and not becoz your BF is pressuring you.
2006-09-21 11:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Serendipity 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All depends which is a larger size
2006-09-21 10:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre using tampons chances are your hymen is allready broke so try using a lubricant if he cant get you wet enough or choose a different lover,
2006-09-21 10:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That should be done by an expert.
2006-09-21 10:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by BIG WILLIE THE GEORGIA TITIAN 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋