I just found out my fiancees ex gf that lives in the state of Washingtion is moving down here were me and him live in San Diego.He has told me how much he cared about her along time ago.I seen a pic of her and she is really pritty and skinny.Iam not fat but Iam not skinny and don't think Iam as pritty. So now I worred he might leave me for her if she moves here.Sould I worry?
2006-09-21 03:20:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Iam not fat Iam only 104 but Iam short that is why I weight that much. Iam not fat but have a belly and she is skinny skinny.
2006-09-21 03:33:14 · update #1
It's only natural to worry. Any normal human being would. I worry all the time about my boyfriend and stuff like that. The thing that you have to remember is that he is YOUR fiancee, which means he really loves you if he asked you to marry him. Chances are he wont leave you for her. I mean x's are x's for a reason right? So don't sweat it so much. And if he does end up leaving you for her he wasn't worth it anyway now was he? You'll be glad it happened before you got married. Don't sweat it girl..... he loves you.
2006-09-21 03:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should worry. He is with you, not her.
Skinny is not always what men want. And pretty is really just in the eye of the beholder. When you love someone, they automatically become more attractive. He is gonna marry you.
if she is inteferring in your life in any way, then maybe its a problem. And if you feel you cannot trust him, and have good reason why, then maybe you need to question it. Your gut is almost always right. If a relationship is not meant to be, we usually know if in our hearts, whether we admit it or not.
But on looks or weight alone, dont worry, girl!
2006-09-21 10:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by katerina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! Acting insecure and jealous could drive your man away. He has been honest with you about how he felt about her. ... but, they broke up for a reason. Good looks and a slim build aren't what's important in a healthy loving relationship. You have to look at who you are and realize that he loves you for who you are....people don't generally get married just because the other person looks attractive. He's with you because he loves you inside and out. I saw your profile by the way....and you have nothing to be jealous of. So, be confident...don't let anyone make you feel insecure. Good luck.
2006-09-21 10:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by getrd2go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why worry about things that have not happened? If he really wanted to be with this other girl and not you, distance would not have mattered. You are with him now, not her, just make the best of you two being together and talk to him, tell him how you are feeling and that you are scared and I'm sure he will reassure you that everything is fine.Good Luck!
2006-09-21 10:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so insecure. Who cares what she looks like? She's his "ex" for a reason. Until he gives you a reason to worry, I wouldn't.
Also you need a higher self-esteem. Don't walk around thinking "I am not as prett as she". That's probably the most unattractive thing you can do.
Don't sweat it, he's not going anywhere
2006-09-21 10:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many fish in the sea to WORRY about wether someone will do something. Remember that it is TOTALLY out of your control what he does! Worrying doesn't solve anything, but it may strain your relationship!
2006-09-21 10:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by jody s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You most likely have nothing to worry about! He is with you now! exes are just that! It did not work out for them. just keep an eye on on things, if you know what I mean. Do not become paranoid ,though! He loves you!!!!!
2006-09-21 10:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident in your relationship! He's marrying you isn't he? Their relationship ended for a reason.
PS how could you be 104 pounds and consider yourself "not skinny" ??
2006-09-21 10:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by apriljm76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is with YOU and he is engaged to YOU. You shouldn't worry unless he talks non-stop about her.
You mentioned that he had cared about her a LONG TIME AGO. It's exactly that.
If you feel this way, talk to him about it.
But me being a self proclaimed private investigator, how does he know that she is moving to where you are?
Don't let my way of thinking throw you though.
2006-09-21 10:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Renee25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you then no he took you as you was and bigger women are much more fun and alot more to love they have a bigger heart and really takes care of her man and if he leaves you for her then he is not a man anyway
good luck and wish you the best
2006-09-21 10:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Billie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋