A girl suffers some physical ailments in her childhood, and social humiliation came together with it. Luckily enough she gets a proper treatment at time, and atleast becomes normal and to some extent attractive too. She wanted to share her truth with those whom she trusted, she told only truth to all, she fell truly in love with her friends, parents and ofcourse for someone special.
BUT
She received only hillarious laughter, pinches, taunts, and insults unbearable.
Now she has come to know the language of the world, but doesn't seem to be too much interested to live in such a world of insensitives, nor does she think suicide to be of any help.
What should she do ? What do u say ?
2006-09-21 03:20:17 · 11 answers · asked by muralidharini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be as honest as you were when you told them. Now tell them they are hurting your feelings.
2006-09-21 03:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a physical ailment and getting cured of it is no sin.
And the whole world is not bad. She might have faced a few humiliations at the hands of some insensitive people. That need not make her cynical and make her hateful of life itself.
In any case, she can take it as a challenge and succeed against all odds.
That's what Helen Keller did, without getting cured of her permanent physical challenges.
2006-09-21 10:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill tell u that u did the best thing by tellin the truth to everyone so u know who accept u as u r n who not in this time u ready to know whos with u n whos against u who is holdin ur hands n who is goin away n if u didnt find anyone to hold ur hand n stay beside u am sure the days will change ur loneliness to a better life n always b honest with urself n n others even if this truth is gona make some ppl laugh one day ull laugh at them too didnt u hear this bf they laugh at me cause am different but i laugh at them cause they r all the same lol so dont get sad b proud of urself dear
2006-09-21 10:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lakshmi, what do u mean by " world of insensitives" u expect this world to be a wonderful place where people will cheer at u r achivements and weep at u r miseries if this is what u r expecting then better jump from 5th floor and go to heaven and perhaps this kind of world is found there, not here on this earth, i have learnt many a lesson from this world and mind u this not so much a bad place to live in and believe me when all of our people our family ,friends everyone has abandoned us God sends someone for rescue, i am 37yrs old man single parent of a 9 yrs old kid his mother abondened us 5 yrs ago my mother my sister are against me and want me to leave the kid to them and go away as my sister has none but being a man i am sticking to my guns all women in my life are against me but i still trust in God almighty and believe that he plans and does everything for us did u expect that u will ever overcome this physical ailment when in u r childhood, similar is this situation he will deliver do not worry , there is god a real God who will deliver us , us both remember...
2006-09-21 13:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by ABBEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi laskmi
nice name yaar i didnot get yr ques exactly but i hv something to tell. "a gal suffers" means she is single. she is vhing whole life n she cannot stop lovinf or tusting ppl just because some idiots taunt or misbehaved. i donot know what she suffers n why ppl r doing this rude behaviour but what i know is that ppl r not able for that galn one more thing if u want to share this with someone realy spl. n u think that gal can trust him so go ahead donot waste a min. this is not the world of idiots this world needs ppl like u who know meaning of love n care. m not going to give u lecture just telling u what all u know but u need to hear its. so mam go ahead share it donot thinkof suicide keep ur self busy n do some thing on which u can male proud no matter what other think the matter is what we think abt ppl.
i think u will decide yr best. best of luck n take care
2006-09-21 10:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by saurabh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether it's by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know that one life breathed easier because you have lived...is to have succeeded.
2006-09-21 10:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
birth is pleasant and death is pleasure and its the transition that is pain full. Life is all about it. Live life on your terms. Don't trust anybody but yourself. Take a job set a goal and lead and live by example. Live life king size and speak about your problems with a smile. It gives no chance for others to mock at you.
2006-09-21 10:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is always hard. & if you suffered much in life you begain to think all world from one prospective that is negtive prospective. as this world is full of good & bad. she needs to think what good things she got from her life. forget about badones. go for friendship with all but sight & remember who loves you from heart. and try to give the same in return. about telling trouth if her lovedones truelly loves her, then they will definately understand her & continue loveing her.
2006-09-21 13:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by maddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you belive & accept whtever you know, Kindly don't ever bother for others thinkings. If you contnue to think for the same it will hurt you more.
So kindly ignore the others & start continuing to belive you own faith & proced further
All the Best to you
2006-09-21 10:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by baf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say dont care a damn about them.u need not win over such sorts,they r just not worth it.be happy for urself.make ur own life.people who deserve her will surely come her way.dont lose hope and keep faith.
2006-09-21 12:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋