is it weird for an 18 years old girl to be obssesed with a 30 years old man....but he doesnt look old at all,he's macho and good looking....
2006-09-21 03:08:24 · 21 answers · asked by cEweQ_iNdO^^ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In my opinion it is not weird that you are attracted to an older man, but it is weird if that man is interested in you, he should know better, you are still very young, and there are so many guys around your age,who Iam sure you have way much more in comman with. A 30 year old man needs to stay away from someone as young as yourself, you are barely legal, and if he can not find someone closer to his age, then he has a REAL problem.
2006-09-21 03:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by alextheallycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird, but there may be other problems. Is he married? Divorced? Does he have children from a previous relationship? What kind of health issues is he dealing with? That 12-year age difference leaves plenty of opportunities to collect baggage that an 18-year-old hasn't had time to accumulate. If you're prepared to deal with that, then go for it.
2006-09-21 10:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not weird to be attracted to an older man, but using the word obsessed is a bit strong...you don't want him to see you as some annoying stalker or worse...obsession can make you do crazy things. If you want to be with him, show your interest a bit without being obvious and also make sure he is single. Make sure he is interested in you as a person and not the idea of having a young attractive girl on his arms for show.
2006-09-21 10:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by felicitym2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wierd, women mature faster than men so there is not as big of an age gap as u might think. Anyways age is just a number God gave us to live on earth by
2006-09-21 10:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by baby j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not weird or unappropriate. But, could cause problems if he's married already.
2006-09-21 10:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by sprint501 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife is 12 years older than me, though 18 is a young age. If you are serious about making a committment with him, then go for it.
2006-09-21 10:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by angle_of_deat_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not, my b/f is 44 and i am 30 we have been together for 2 yrs i have 3 beautiful children and he love them like his own, i agree it has been proven that women mature faster than men. go for it.you never know what happiness you may discover
2006-09-21 10:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not weird. Woman mature faster and are often attracted to older men. Go for it!
2006-09-21 10:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by jody s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No problem at all, as long as she's over 18.
2006-09-21 10:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Karen ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, its not weird. Younger girls are always infatuated with older guys who can relate.
2006-09-21 10:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋