We've been going out for awhile and he lives in PA and I'm in OH. Recently he wanted me to move out with him. I told him I would but after my daughter finished school. After that he told me he's had time to think and maybe this isn't what he wanted. Hardly ever calls anymore and very rarley answers my calls. He did tell me that it wasn't over but there is a chance I could lose him. Is he just upset I wouldn't move when he wanted me too or is it something else? I'm very confused and would like some input.
2006-09-21 03:00:34 · 20 answers · asked by zosmom27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its hard to answer that question without actually knowing him, but it doesn't sound like that is the reason. He's pushing you away, maybe its another woman, maybe he's got some things going on right now, or maybe he is pouting. And if he's going to pout because you're trying to do the best thing for your child, well, maybe you don't need to be with someone like that. Focus on yourself and your child & don't worry so much about it. Things will work out just fine.
2006-09-21 03:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Annabelle418 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think He's losing interest. It's probably for the best. Would you have wanted him to lose interest AFTER you moved you & your daughter to another state? He may not want to break it off completely because he either a) wants to keep you on a line in case his latest interest doesn't work out or b) just doesn't want to be the bad guy or c) has got a case of cold feet, taking into consideration that you are a package deal. You pick.
You win 2,000,000 Brownie points for putting your daughter 1st.
Keep doing that & the right guy will come along & appreciate you all the more for it.
2006-09-21 10:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he told u that he has time to think and it's not what he wants. if he doesnt answer ur phone calls like he use to then there could be a chance that he may have someone else. but guys wont tell us and plus he lives in PA so no telling what he is doing over there that u dont know about, so just move on
2006-09-21 10:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question and I'm sure he's really the only one that could give you a straight answer. I can't imagine he lost interest because you wouldn't move in with him, but, then again, he may be getting frustrated by not being able to see you that often.
Maybe he feels he needs someone to be with him all the time and the distance has begun to wear on him. Like I said it's a tough question but maybe he feels the need to be closer to you.
Hope everything works out.
2006-09-21 10:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always a good idea to try and find out whats prompted this change, which should be easy if he is willing to talk to you about it. However, is it possible that he has found someone and is testing the waters? hence the statement of it not being over but you might lose him? or his he just selfish and would have preferred you put his request before your daughters need?
2006-09-21 10:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by felicitym2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is upset and he just needs some time away from talking to you to sit back and think about what he really wants in a relationship and you calling will make it harder on him. so basically all i can say is be patient and give him time...if he loves you he will stay with you but he breaks up with you then it wasnt meant to be and you can find someone better. Good Luck!
2006-09-21 10:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your guy found someone new and was wanting to know if your relationship will progress,if not he will move on and if he finds something good he won't let it go.But right now your on the top of his list.At least till somethin better comes along.
2006-09-21 10:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by lil_sweetnothings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to guess and say it's something else. One question, how old ar you guys? If you're older and he's mature then he would understand about the school thing. Maybe there's somebody else that he's thinking about, but nothing's happened yet. Talk to him.
2006-09-21 10:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by jdecorse25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deeds speak louder then words. And even his words are plain, he did tell you that he had time to think and that you relation is not what he wanted didn't he. Your not immediately moving can not be reason for his behavior.
2006-09-21 10:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL NOT TO BE THE ONE TO BREAK IT TO YOU BUT IT SEEMS LIKE HE HAS FOUND SOMETHING ELSE TO PREOCCUPY HIMSELF WITH. HEY ITS BETTER THAT IT HAPPENS NOW THAN WHEN YOU HAD ALREADY MOVED. STAY RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE AND LET THE MEN COME TO YOU. THERES PLENTY OF THEM OUT THERE. LEAVE HIS *** IN PA AND FIND YOURSELF A LOCAL PARTNER, GOOD LUCK. KICK HISS *** TO THE CURB.
2006-09-21 11:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by ALADY4SHO0426 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋