I dated this guy in college 3 years ago for a few months and we were great together.One day he just stopped talking to me.I assumed that he was afraid of a serious relationship thats why he broke it off.I ended up moving away and hadn't talked to him until recently.I found him on myspace.He immediately moved me to #2 on his friends list.His song on his page is a song that reflects our situation.I live 8 hours away from him and have a new baby, yet he calls me every night saying how he wants to get back together and how he misses how we were and how he's settled down a lot.He's in his mid 20's(i dunno if that matters or not).It really surprised me that he still has feelings for me,especially after the fact that I told him a had a baby and he still wants to have a relationship.I'm not sure if he's willing to move or not but he knows that I can't.I really like him and it seems like he really likes me but I wonder if he is ready to settle down.
2006-09-21 03:00:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The father of my baby left me and so i moved to be with family.
2006-09-21 03:08:03 · update #1
#1 on his list is his best friend(guy).
2006-09-21 03:14:04 · update #2
Just stay friends for now and see how it goes. There's really no rush is there? If it's for real and forever then it will last. You can't lose something you never had in the first place.
2006-09-21 03:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by sinned 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you see bigger changes don't do it, man tend to talk, talk, talk, and when it comes to being face to face with the situation then they back up. Don't make it easy for him, otherwise he is going to think that He can do whatever and you will deal with it. Why are you #2 on his list, if you asked me you should be #1 if he really cared about you as he says he does.
2006-09-21 10:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by lluvia2wcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good possibility. I would suggest some face to face interaction though. Get a feel for how he is in person, see if he is genuine. Then if he still wants to try it and you feel the same way go for it.
2006-09-21 10:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by taterhater420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is the father of the baby? This is an iffy situation and I would not count on it. Then, think of the possibility of losing the child.
2006-09-21 10:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is... But If i were you I wouldnt rush into anything too serious until you know for sure..
You have a baby to worry about now.
2006-09-21 10:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him alot then just take it slow and see how it goes then if he thinks that he is ready to settle down then he will ask u. just dont rust into things
2006-09-21 10:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is ready, just talk to him about it
2006-09-21 10:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be.
2006-09-21 10:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋