am i pregnant? what does this signs mean..?

Question

me and my guy had sex 31th of last month, he did not came inside me cause i was afraid instead he just rubs his 'you know' to mine..
i was suppose to have period last month but it missed.. at first it doesnt bother me cause i have irregular menstruation, but now i am really worried because until now i havent got my period! on the 2nd week of this month, my nipples hurt, i think it last 5days and i think my breasts look larger. and now i've been having cramps, and i always have discharge.. i thought it was my period but its not.. my discharges came in diff colors.. 1 time i saw it yellow, sometimes brown and sometimes white. i am so worried and i told my guy about that and he said its nothing because first and foremost he did not came inside me, he just RUB it with his 'you know'.. but still i wasnt convinced about it.

do you think there's something wrong about me or i'm just being paranoid? is there a possibility that i could get pregnant?

please help me, thanks for your answers

i forgot to add that im also having like some kind of diarrhea. some sites tells that if a woman is pregnant, you'll have few visits at the toilet. does this include taking a poo? not a pee..
thanks for your answers..

Answer 1

a doctor friend of mine once told me a male sperm died easily but a female sperm could live in about 10 or more seconds....even if your guy just "rubs" his to yours..there is a possibility of pregnancy.....and your spots maybe a signs that you are really psyched out or stressfully worried about being pregnant...maybe you SHOULD seek a professional advice regarding your situation.you must try a self pregnancy test at home....

word or brotherly advice:
you said something about being afraid....afraid of what?
if you're really afraid why on earth you do that in the first place?
afraid of what?being pregnant?have an STD?have an unwanted child?have a miserable lovelife if you dont go for your bf's needs?
c'mon girl....WAKE UP!!!

Answer 2

hey, i dont know why u allowed his $$$ to have the damn thing on you ma

i mean come on if it was no condom
UNPROTECTED SEX theres a chance precum got in there or even the tip *** thats the male's discharge but it swim in travels just as fast as the thicker stuff

u should have made him get all the way back not rubbin against u
u know

and he sounds like he's getting cold feet

my version of a punk thats having sex in dont undertand the conseqences of it let alone ready to boss up
because he response should have been well let me go get test or what u been feeling like or what can i do to make the wait less heavy on u
u know anything besides well it nothing because i didnt come in u
nor does know that that going inside the vagina with tip *** already present can cause pregnancy


now the brown,white and yellow discharge i can say for sure the brown is old blood, the yellow sounds like an infection and the white is normal release

i know this i study this
but u need to go get a blood test because that is the only test that will reveal and explain most of your many problems

good luck
please dont be offended by any of my words

Answer 3

If you can not trust that your man did not do the deed there is a chance that you are pregnant. I would be little more concerned with his response. With what he is saying is he going to accuse you of being with someone else if you are pg? Takr a home test or go and se your doctor then you will know for sure. But it sounds like some of the symptoms of pregnancy. Good luck.

Answer 4

Take a home pregnancy test first see what happens. But it sounds like you are...or it could just be stress. If you still feel uncomfortable Id say go see a doctor to get a blood test done. Good Luck!

Answer 5

even using with draw there is a chance of getting pregnant and there is also precum that can do the job to take a test and if it comes out negative I would go see a Dr. because if you are not pregnant there maybe some kind of std your discharge should not be different color something is def. wrong.....good luck

Answer 6

I do believe sperm can still find their way into you and swim all the way there

Answer 7

You could be, the little buggers can climb.

Answer 8

sorry but i am too lazy to read your letter