especially as i was a virgin when we met we are both late twenties
2006-09-21 02:03:35 · 36 answers · asked by sadandlonely 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i was a virgin 1st because i wanted to wait untill i was married which i thought we would and secondly iwanted to save myself for only one man
2006-09-21 02:16:43 · update #1
he left because he says he has a good career ahead of him and a baby would hold him back
2006-09-21 02:19:00 · update #2
a dead beat joker, loser, asshole, wimp, asswipe, jerk, d**khead, b**ch, punk a**, a coward that is afraid to take responsibility. Honey thank your blessings because it's good he left. You and the baby would do worse with him.
2006-09-21 02:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you. I think that as hard as it may seem you should leave him and let him have his job. You should keep your beautiful baby and together you two are all that you will need. That poor baby didn't ask to be made but here it is growing inside of you. Surly you feel like it needs you. He obviously doesn't love you and your child will have unconditional love for you. You will find someone that will love you and your baby. Just take it one step at a time. Everything will be OK. You need to take care of your baby and yourself right now and forget about this dumb guy. One day when he is old and grey and alone he'll wish that he would have chosen his family and not his job. In the end it's not the days in your life that matter it's the life in your years. So make the best out of your life that you can. Keep your baby and be happy.
2006-09-24 12:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends on why he is leaving.
If he is going because he has found someone else, or simply doesn't want the responsibility of the child, then he should be ashamed of himself.
If he is going because of something you have done, or because the relationship is failing anyway, then there is nothing wrong with him leaving you.
As for the posters on here villifying him,
NONE OF US HAVE BEEN GIVEN ENOUGH INFORMATION ON WHY HE HAS WALKED OUT SO CAN'T JUDGE HIM.
EDIT:
Now we know the reason it's obvious the guy is a complete b'stard and never cared for you at all.
you are well rid of him.
2006-09-21 02:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call him a total jerk and then give him over to God. No one can judge the way God can. For He knows all and knows who has and hasn't repented. i am sorry that you have had this bad experience. this isnot nice at all. How far along are you? You and the baby are probably better off without him. If he can not hang in there for the child he helped to create then why worry about him,He is a loser and a big one at that. Enjoy your child love it enough for two parents and you will be fine. God loves you.
2006-09-21 02:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends. I think it's sad when people stay together just because someone is pregnant. It makes for a horrible life for the child because even before they can talk children can sense feelings and they know when mom and dad don't like each other, and they can for sure know when mom and dad don't love each other, and they'll never develop a sense of security.
If he just walked out because the girl was pregnant, well, then he's a loser.
2006-09-21 02:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dirtbag! Don't give him a second chance. Guys like that give all of us a bad name. find a good one that wants to be with you even though you are pregnant. If it works out, you can have more with him. Relationships are 50/50 and you should both work to make it. If you both work, you both maintain the home and if one works the other takes care of the home. Above all, communicate.
2006-09-21 02:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by acwitte_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt I can say what I would call him in a way that would pass through whatever filters are used by Yahoo Answers. Oh, wait... I have it...
I call him BBQ with Special Sauce.
If you don't get it... rent the movie Fried Green Tomatoes.
What the heck... rent the movie anyway... it's very empowering.
Boys Are Stupid. Throw Rocks at Them.
2006-09-21 02:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "Major put down" to the guys who are true to their women. You could always say Jerk, Loser, a$$hole, piece of $hit, scum...and so on : ) But it all comes down to the fact he did you wrong and he might be the reason you treat your next sweetie like **** (if you do) cause everybody knows it takes time for "wounds" to heal. And the next guy might be a good guy and you may have already lost your trust in men because of "The Asshole". So I would definately call him a "Put Down To Good Men".
2006-09-21 02:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know what I want to call him but I wont use that kind of language on here. But really he is got to be in the very Low life category.Sorry to hear that. Be strong and you can make it on your own.
2006-09-21 02:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't really judge him about walking out on his girlfriend without knowing why. BUT - any man who walks out on his child is a despicable human being worthy of scorn.
2006-09-21 02:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Xeod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋