OH well... my bf came from the states and stayed one week with me. my aunt and I (im staying with her) decided to prepare this room for him.,... OH well after two days of we both falling sleep in the couch ( cuz we spent the night watching movies in his computer or talking..) my aunt yelled at me cuz she didnt want him to be uncomfortable, so he went to one of the room. we were soo surprised that she let us sleep together!! its something unbeliavable but it happened. we had sex everynight and she even never knew it.2 days before he gotta leave, my mom knew what was going on and she got mad at me but i told her i didnt had sex (i lied =( to her)...
My family knows my bf loves me and his family knows that too.. do you think i must feel shame about it?
2006-09-21 01:16:52 · 14 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no way!!!!!!!
but i hope you used protection. no need to feel ashamed about this. you can get condoms everywhere. keep smiling :))
2006-09-21 01:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by india18 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your aunt knew what was going on - believe me.
You sound really young and desperate for sex - a future recommendation would be not to do it at a family member's house just because that's just sad and a bit gross. I mean, have you absolutely no control?
And you shouldn't lie to your mom - she can read right through it. Apologize to her and see your boyfriend less.
2006-09-21 08:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your age, under age, they are right to be mad, but over the age of 16 in the UK,, but if you are both over that age, its OK,, at least your not sneaking out and having sex in cars and your family know your bf. just remember to use a condom at all times whether your on the pill or not..
2006-09-21 08:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cee S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the normal development of events. You have a great aunt, and a normal mother.
2006-09-21 08:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Max M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whatever you feel is what you feel. and at the end of the day he is your boyfriend so you have nothing to be ashamed of... i recently brought my boyfriend to my country and he stayed in my family house i felt bad about it but you just cqnt help it.. its only natural and inevitable that will happen when you get ino bed with your boyfriend
2006-09-21 08:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by kazza 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to your mother....she will find out anyway, and what you did is a normal part of growing up. Never an excuse to lie.
2006-09-21 11:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by alabasterdeplume 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't u think u lied with ur mother it means u yourself is feeling ashamed of doing it....do what ever u like.. but be ready to except it...hope had used protection at least....
2006-09-21 08:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by PRIYA M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to feel shameful? Is the true
million-dollar question
2006-09-21 08:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jesus Freak!!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No.... provided you are both of age and it is consensual. I would however recommend that you do abide by your aunts ground rules. It is her home.
2006-09-21 08:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No please. Its a natural thing. You dont have to tell your mother or anyone about your sexlife. Just use protection and try not to get pregnant otherwise your white lie will be shot to hell.
2006-09-21 08:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by chanD 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋