what did you do about it ????? how did you feel after???
2006-09-21 01:02:19 · 19 answers · asked by cooldude_92627 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've been cheated on. My boyfriend of almost 4 years cheated on me non-stop for the last three (as far as I know anyway). I was young and stupid back then, so I forgave him, even though he caused me a tremendous amount of pain. The more I stayed with him, the more I began to dislike him. For the last year of our relationship, I can honestly say that I hated him. Finally, I was able to leave him. He begged for forgiveness, but I slammed him with the front door when he was leaving my house (I think he finally got the hint; if that doesn't say 'it's over,' I don't know what does). I've been a lot happier since. I didn't think I'd date again for a while, but my new boyfriend seems great. However, from now on as soon as they cheat, goodbye. I'm not staying with someone who will hurt me. Cheaters never change.
2006-09-21 01:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been cheated on by all serious boyfriends before I met my husband.
The one that hurt the worst:
I was a freshman in high school, and he was a senior. Everybody warned me about him, but I was too "in love" and naive to listen to what they had to say. About a year into our relationship there were so many rumors going around about him that I couldn't take it anymore. I confronted him and he still denied it. My gut was telling me there was truth behind all the rumors. So I still went along with the relationship, and pretty soon, I didn't care less if he was cheating or not. I just wanted an excuse to get out of this controlling and manipulative relationship. I finally broke up with him and to be honest I was more relieved and happy than sad. I moved on to another relationship (that ended bad as well) and to this day I still hear rumors that he slept with this girl and this girl............. I thank the heavens above everyday that I was smart enough that I didn't sleep with him for healths sake.
My point is- when somebody cheats on you, your heart and mind detach from that person, so it is easier to let go. It is always heartbreaking, but in the long run better for you and your heart. My advice is - if you suspect somebody is being unfaithful, for the sake of your sanity, break it off. Nobody deserves to be treated with such dishonesty and disrespect.
2006-09-21 01:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on once...... He cheated w/my best friend... I never talked to the guy about it... I did ask my friend about it and she just cried because I found out..... 25 years later she's still my best freind he's long gone.....
Now-- I have cheated on someone as well... my spouse... not intentionally at first but affection was missing from our marriage and sex (crazy sex) is not all there is ..... I was ready for the marriage to end.....
Good luck to you... and keep in mind that all things will pass and you'll be stronger and wiser for having made it through
2006-09-21 01:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been cheated on and I have done the cheating. Feels like crap to know that someone you love wanted to be with someone else. I could never forgive/forget cheating in my life on my part or on my partners.
2006-09-21 01:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband cheated all the time. But, I filed for divorce due to his abuse. I didn't find out about the cheating until afterward. How did I feel? I felt as if I made the right decision filing for divorce. BTW, he remarried and left his wife for his new girlfriend.
2006-09-21 01:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been cheated on..and it is not a pleasant experience. It breaks your heart to know that someone that is supposed to love you would do that to you. At the same time, it makes you mad, knowing that this person thought of only themselves and no one else's feelings. What do you think I did?? I "kicked his *** to the curb"... I do not want to be with someone who thinks so little of my feelings and would possibly expose me to some kind of an STD.
2006-09-21 01:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE I BEEN CHEATED ON:
i have been cheated on once.
and i realized that no matter how faithfull and loyal you are, you would be in the danger of your partner to cheat on you.
HOW DID I FEEL:
when i first knew that i got dizzy and the world was spinning around me.
WHAT DID I DO:
i had to forgive and give another chance, so our relation would go on.
2006-09-21 01:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on by my fiance. we broke up. i just moved on and found someone else a few months later after i had time to grieve... it felt sh!t dude. I hate that. That's why I wont Cheat!
2006-09-21 01:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partygirlprincess raises her hand...... Didn't do anything about it.....if I'm not wanted I sure don't stick around for more abuse. Made me sick to my stomach, though, and the feeling lingered for quite some time. Still get nauseated thinking about it. Have a wonderful Thursday, cooldude!
2006-09-21 01:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I have. I hapeen to cry over it for a month.. after i cry after a month I beleive that theres another person in this world will entry my life and make me happy than being trap
2006-09-21 01:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋