2006-09-20 23:22:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
A female's body & sexuality is hers & hers alone. It is not up to her parents or to anyone else to decide when the time is right for her to have sex or with whom.
Parents can certainly have an influence over the years in helping to form opinions & morals, but ultimately, it is up to each individual to make those decisions for themselves.
(I might add that a male's body is also his own to decide when to have sex and with whom)
2006-09-20 23:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by julie j 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong doing so. At least it will save you the ugly challenges of growing up. Though, only pschological effect and constant wet dreams associated with it. I disvirgined at 21 though before marriage, still regreted it. You could do it, only if God will help u to marry early.
2006-09-21 06:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Angel M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well to tell u the truth my parents always told me to do it because they figured if they let me do it then i wouldnt. but i think its because they dont want there daughters to get hurt because once u sleep with a guy its like u almost fall in love with them because u came so close to them. but also because they dont want to take the chance of becoming grandparents at a young age or make the same mistake they did
2006-09-21 06:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by me_wild_child111590 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its something to do with tradition, family values and more or less to protect there girl child from some Morons :)
Also Most Girls are never virgin till marriage so its a Rule which is never applied!
I met this beautiful girl from Iran and she did follow this!
2006-09-21 06:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mozomo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are a lot of reasons= one protects her body from disease and pregnancy, and from being heartbroken and used-and she will have her virginity to give to her husband for a wedding present and not have past ties to any other man.
2006-09-21 06:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is more than "the Bible tells me so". It is because of love of God and wanting the best for children that this is said. The references that I have here say it so much better than I.
2006-09-21 07:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Buzz s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So they can help her pick a husband that they approve of, and reducing the possibility they'll end up taking care of daughter and grandkid...
2006-09-21 06:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just what all Mom's and Dads hope for........Down deep they really know that the chances of that are slim....
2006-09-21 07:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by Happy_Wheatland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ancient double standard.
Women stay chaste and faithful. (gatherers)
Men be experienced and take on mistress. (hunters)
passed from generation to generation
2006-09-21 06:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ebee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cos that what the bible say
2006-09-21 06:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋