Too Much Sex?

Question

On average, my boyfriend and I have sex about twelve to fourteen times a week. I'd like more, but he says he's too tired. Is this a "me" problem? He's GREAT in bed though!

Answer 1

This is your problem - because one cant forse your partner to more sex - if he does not feel up to more then either you have to comprimise and setle for the amount your getting or start sattisfying your self!!

Answer 2

I'm afraid if i were having sex 12-14 times a week i'd be shattered too regardless of how good anyone was the fact that you've asked the question means you obviously care about him and have his best interests at heart you could try things his way for a while a little less but you could also experiment with new ways of making love some are more passionate and more intense after that you may not need another go around or you could try something a litle more gentle and slow it may not exhaust him quite so much you've a few options open either quell your need for more sex by tiring yourself out in other methods or make each session last longer and be more sensual for him
hope this helps

Answer 3

Ive had exactly the same problem...
I love sex, i cant get enough. I used to need it at least 3 times a day. however, recently i have decided that enough is enough. my partner cant keep up bless him, so we only do once a day or so.
there are plenty of things you could do to relieve yourself, as you probably know.
it would be a good idea to give him a break if he needs it, you wouldn't want split-up over this would you?
instead of having sex all the time, try making a date for it, leaving it a couple of days. Dress up for it, or make a theme, for example, bondage or nurses or anything that turns you both on. then when the date comes, make sure that you take your time and experiment with stuff. to make it last all evening.
you will probably find yourself feeling much more satisfied doing this than having quickies all the time.
Enjoy and Good Luck ;-D

Answer 4

I have the same problem hun and yea it has chased alot of good guys off so if u really like this one compromise and find out what works for ya both. u may have to get yourself off alot to keep him from getting too tired or sometimes ya think ya want sex when a good cuddle or shower together just to touch each other satisfies the craving almost as good if its quality time it makes ya glow and grin. Also I am bi and when I get really active over a period of time I usually get a gf to do things with that way he can get more excited or if hes tired (man has to not be jealous type for this) you and her can kiss, cuddle or make love when he is busy or asleep.

Answer 5

Lets see you have sex 12 to 14 times a week and he is tired. Yup he is. You need to change the number for times to extended amount of time. Have sex less but make it last longer. Example on the low time range if my mate and I had sex 12 to 14 times a week that would take 14 hours minimum or two hours a day if twice a day. take 12 hours for getting ready for work and driving to work, 2 hours for lunch and dinner, 8 hours of sleep, 1 hour for talk, 1 hours for doing dishes and other house hold chores for a total of 24 hours. Now take 2 hours a day for sex so I guess sleep will have to be cut back. You wonder why he might be tired.

Make sex last longer and less amount of times.

You love sex but think about it like going to eat at your favorite restaurant 14 times a week. It becomes boring and you go try another restaurant.

Make sex exciting and hot and last longer. Cut back on the amount of times.

Answer 6

There is nothing wrong with having a high sex drive.
Although twelve to fourteen times a week is more then most get.
If he is two tired to keep up with your needs I would recommend pleasing yourself in between time.

Answer 7

I am very much like you. I do not think that either of us have any type of nympho disorder. There is nothing wrong with enjoying your partner and enjoying sex. My old girlfriend and I were the same way and loved it. He's nuts for saying that he is too tired; let him get a girl that gives him the "too tired" or "head ache" or whatever excuse and he'll wish that he had you.

There should be more like you!!!

Answer 8

is there such thing as too much sex?
If you're female, probably not. If you're male? probably yes. you would think that males should be wanting sex more the females but its actually the other way around for alot of people, guys get tired alot more easier then girls and if they dont rest a little it wont be good for the penis as erection may weaken alittle meaning they probably wont perform as well as last time etc. so let him rest a little would make sex better next time, try not to pressure him too much, surely you have to understand your feller and care how he feels, relaionship is more inportant then sex (sometimes hehe)

Answer 9

No i dont think you have a problem I think you have the sex life that i've been longing 4. Dont get married. It will only last a year. Then nothing. I think i have had sex 14 times in the last ten years. And my wife is ten years younger than me. And i'm only forty. Just keep it up. Change nothing. And enjoy your self.

Answer 10

is that twelve to fourteen quick ones? like a few seconds each time? when do you have time for this? or are you both really young? sounds like too much already to me

Answer 11

I have a hell of a sex drive too. I am always horny I can't get enough sex. On weekends I often shag all day then go have a few drinks and shag some more. I think your boyfriend is either a puss or is cheating on you. I wish we lived close we ought to hook up.