ok try to put yourself in this situation please....
you broke up with your ex-gf because you thought she was a lot of pressure on you at that particular moment in your life plus you have a lot of self-issues and insecurities to fix and you told the girl you won't love anyone else and you'll come back when you're ok.
after a year, you came back and realized what a wrong decision you did and that you really love the girl very much, and wanted to start over again with the girl. but the girl suffered a lot in that year, his father had a second family revealed and she was diagnosed of possible breast cancer, and she really lost all the trust on you and is running away from you and doesn't even want to be friends with you.. when one day you asked her why she's doing all this running away.. she just said to you that you will still find another girl and you're just confused and you'll just hurt her again.. she told you to look for someone else and she'll close the door for you..
2006-09-20 22:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and currently she's doing everything not to see you.. she's not replying to your messages and etc.. so if you are this guy what would you do?
note: the girl had told you she still loves you but said that it doesn't matter because she won't risk with you anymore.
2006-09-20 22:40:25 · update #1
If she tells you to get lost.... you get lost. Period.
It doesn't do anyone any good if you try pursuing a relationship with someone who is deliberately trying to avoid you. That's called stalking, and stalkers are not cool.
2006-09-20 22:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Slight space but open communication for both of us to feel the situation out. Different day different circumstances different approach. Keep on loving her enough to fell what she is going through so I don't put any more stress on her that is already there. She is beautiful to me I wouldn't want to make her angry with hate and contempt towards me. It is tricky so I must take it slow because hey she took it slow while I was figuring out my stuff for that year. I don't want too but must leave it up to the Mr. old and confusing FATE.
2006-09-21 06:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do anything to stay around her, help her, communicate with her in any means possible till she realise that no one in the world can love her this much
2006-09-21 05:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by ADIGAZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is telling you to look elsewhere.... do it.
If she lost or loses respect for you the relationship won't last anyway. So, pleading is a no no. If she can't forgive you then do what she said................move on
2006-09-21 06:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would still.
2006-09-21 05:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...there ain`t any reason for doing it.
2006-09-21 05:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way too long of a question
2006-09-21 05:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋