My boyfriend allows me to check his e-mail from time to time, that means I have an access to read his mails. When I opened it today I found that her ex-GF is trying to be added on his Friendlist in friendster.
Though I feel bad to see that mail, I still told him about it. But he gets so mad at me saying that why the hell will I call him and tell about that stupid e-mail. He asked me not to accept it and decline the request, which I did.
Now there are two (2) questionsthat bothers me:
1. Does it means he still love that girl thats why he was so angry to found out that she wants to be added on his friendlist?
2. Does it mean that he never wanted to have any communication with this woman anymore?
To be honest, I suddenly feel scared and doubt him.. I know its not fair but what do you think should I do, if you were in my position?
2006-09-20 22:20:30 · 14 answers · asked by Gnet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think he can be trusted -- he let you snoop around his E-mails and so on. And I don't think he's interested in his ex-girlfriend as he has moved on - WITH YOU.
2006-09-20 23:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by MICKEY MOUSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he has gotten over his ex.But i have some questions for you,have the two of you talked \ argued about his ex lately? Are you throwing his ex in his face? Are you having a hard time accepting that he's over her? It's not his fault that she's trying to be added to his friends list nor would he be that stupid to trade e-mails with her knowing you check his e-mail. If you want to keep the relationship moving in the right direction the both of you need to let his past stay in the past,his ex is gone from his life,stop bringing her back to life.You have no reason to doubt him and not trust him.
2006-09-20 22:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel cause im a girl too. You have a right to feel that way. And i think that was right what you did telling him about it. Honestly that is quite something that he got angry and you don't have to blame yourself for that. THAT is something that he only has the answers because i know that you know that there is something about and behind that "anger". Good thing is he told you to decline the request. That was kind of a faithful act. He was kinda letting you know that he doesn't want to accept it and he really made YOU do it.. but then TALK is the answer here i guess..
after a failed relationship, i've learned one lesson.. NEVER ASSUME anything in a relationship.. talk to him... be calm and gentle.. so that you'll get your answers..
God bless you
2006-09-20 22:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very insecure. He gave you permission to read his e-mails and that shows he has no secrets from you. He has no control of the e-mails he receives. It means you should not accept it and decline the request and he doesn't want to be bothered with it, because he is not interested. Don't doubt him, he gave you permission to snoop around his e-mails.
2006-09-20 22:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decline the request and leave it at that. Maybe they broke up while in bad terms & he wants nothing more to do with her. Respect his decision and try not to read to much to it. If however this happens again, i.e. him getting mad at the ex's emails, there will be need to be alarmed.
2006-09-20 22:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are out of your mind..
even though he gave you the ability to access his mails, that doesnt mean he loves you, it mean that he is not afraid of anything even a girl fro mthe past showed up... so watch out girl... and think Twice;)
2006-09-20 22:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you to delete it, right? Maybe he's upset that you called and made an issue of it. Was he at work or something when you called?
2006-09-20 22:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you had to do is wait and see for your self,you shouldn't have said a word.and then see if he was going to add her himself,then you would have known.think before you talk.you've got to be smarter than what your working with.now i guess you ll never know.
2006-09-20 22:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he kinda expected you to know what his answer is..... i mean, maybe he felt like you don't care about him or something..... cause if it was different girls, because of jealousy, they wouldn't tell their boyfriends.... may be he thought that you don't love him or something cause you didn't get jealous..... just try to talk to him about it and try to explain how you feel...... ask him why he got mad...... your questions can only be answered by your boyfriend..... good luck....
2006-09-20 23:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by <--tsk--> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id doubt it something like that happened to me... get out whilst the hurt is minimal
2006-09-20 22:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋