Ok! A man and woman are married or in a relationship, they have or become friends with someone of the opposite sex, man with woman and woman with man, outside the marriage or relationship. Why is there always "drama" along the lines of cheating, affairs, etc.? It's stupid if you are not doing anything!
2006-09-20 22:12:22 · 17 answers · asked by trojanbasketball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
people making drama r stupid and think about others in a way they r ready to act. t means that people who express lack of trust themselves r ready to cheat.
men (or women) come and leave, friends stay.
2006-09-20 22:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by saxa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone has to explain it to you, you may be too young to understand. The whole idea is that there's always the idea of temptation. All it would take is maybe an argument, or too many late nights at the office, and that opens up the possibility of one or the other being weak enough to give in to a sympathetic ear. I've seen it happen over and over again. My husband does not go into a woman's house alone. I do not go into another man's house alone. It's just not right, because it can be seen as something wrong, whether or not something's going on. Like I said, if you can't seem to understand all the complexities of adult relationships, you might be too young to explain it in a way that would make sense to you. And if this is happening to you, and you have to ask, then you'd best be careful. When you least think that you'd be tempted to go outside of your relationship, that's when something will happen. You might laugh at that, but I've seen it happen to many a man & woman. Even to those whom I thought nothing would ever get in the way. My own step-mom's ex divorced her after 36 years of marriage when he got an 18 year old pregnant. Again, if you have to ask, either you're very young, or tip-toing around someone right now, just being "friendly". Take joy in the one that you're committed to. Why look for green baloney when you've got sirloin steak?! <*)))><
2006-09-21 05:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and I have lots of guy friends and my husband haves female friends too. We don't have any problems cause we both know it's just friendship's. We trust each other and love each other and dont need to cheat.
If all parties can't be an adult and handle that then they shouldn't have friends of the opposite sex.
2006-09-21 05:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
C'mon man. Are you really a man? Then you should know that a gal pal is just a girl you haven't f*cked yet.
2006-09-21 05:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dick Richie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites attract drama causes because of deep involment and frienship interfering in marriage
2006-09-21 05:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by NIHAL K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when two people meet its drama only.
they r extras.
they don't want to be real heroes
they want to cheat thier spouce.
they r idiots.fools.
some men and women r like that only.
they go in search of something and fall prey to something else.
2006-09-21 05:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I have a friend with this problem, her husband is 38 and extremely jealous of her male friend, I call it insecurity...
2006-09-21 05:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because no matter how hard we try to hide it, we all know what pack of hormonally charged animals we are...how sweet it is!
2006-09-21 06:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instinct to preserve and protect their relationship.
2006-09-21 07:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when unlike poles get into closer range, they will attract each other---- better be close to your husband/wife than a stranger
2006-09-21 05:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋