my bf is gettin real wierd.he was fine with me talkin to others a time before bt nw he hs a problem of me talkin to the boyz of my class.he bullies the one who talk to me and abuses those who sit with me.
y has he suddenly grown insecure?wat hs been into him?
help me...i cannot stop talkin to the boyz in my group and dont want to lose my bf...........!
2006-09-20 21:58:42 · 21 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i can understand ur problem sneha, it's a real tough situation.
but u shud probably console ur bf and convince him there is no one in ur mind except him. give the security he needs. it's natural for a true lover to feel insecure specially if u're still in college. cos there are more chances of u meeting other guys and he thinks you could get carried away from some one better. it's more likely to happen in ur age (i think u're still in college, so must be young)
only remedy to it is assure him of your loyalty and may be cut down on talking to others atleast when he's around, just to make him feel u're really for him. once he's convinced, may be u can get back to all ur frnds.
all the best.
2006-09-20 22:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by genial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he cant trust u for some odd reason but if he does not want u to talke to your friends who he new u were talking to befor when it was no prablem then yes he really has a prablem now and u say he ie bullin your friends around this the time u ned to step back andrealize this guy is another person and this can go on a fast path to abuse so be wise and i am a guy telling u ths halla be safe
2006-09-20 23:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by mytjoemaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with boys of your group in presence of your B. Try to find out the person who is jealous of the relation between you both. Some words from that person might have hurt your BF and he is feeling insecure. Discuss the problem with him and solve it.
2006-09-21 02:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him knw how much u love him.... right now hes thinking that even though u both are a couple u may have thoughts of some1 else in the back of your mind... give him some cards expressing your feelings for him.... and indirectly tell him tht no matter what happens u will never leave him...esp for some1 else... good luck... and plz mean what u say.. :) peace
2006-09-20 23:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah...he's gettin jealous of u feelin very insecure seein u talk 2 other boyz....tell him u can't tolerate such behaviour n if he does'nt listen dump him 4 good...u 'll at least get rid of jealous people!!!!ask him if he does'nt talk 2 other girlz...if he does then wat right does he hav 2 stop u ...u really hav 2 make him understand that there's not goin 2 be a prob in ur relationship if u talk 2 other guyz.....
2006-09-20 22:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by rd22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first phase of an abuser is isolating the victim from friends and family. You might want to rethink your relationship with your boyfriend.
2006-09-20 22:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He is either cheating on you and realizes how easy it is to cheat so he is getting paranoid or
2) He has friends that is giving him a hard time about the situation
and he doesn't want to look stupid.
2006-09-20 22:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE
Love is like the seeds of life,
To root is full of pain and strife.
But to grow it’s like a great Oak tree,
Straight and strong for eternity.
Love is what I offer you,
Steadfast, calm and oh, so true!
Love is life between two who shares,
A life between two who really cares.
Love is ours, if you agree,
To spend your life with me!
2006-09-20 22:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by loveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..he just loves u so much..i u dont want to lose ur bf..same goes with him..he also dont want to lose u..maybe he knows better what the other boys are coming up with..he also might hurted before and dont want to lose someone he loves..
good luck!~
2006-09-20 22:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by rayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its common...evry boy feels that his gf should be with her and doesnt like talking to other guys.....because he loves you so much...and he know the boys in ur class better than you.... so i suggest you speak to ur bf that if u wanna talk with boys u ask ur bf to sit beside you so that ur other friends have a healthy relationship....and ur bf also understand..... so dont think he is wired...he feels insecure when u spek to boys...thats it....
2006-09-21 02:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by bindu kiran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋