I've known my boyfriend for two years and we just got together and i told him that i love him he does'nt belive me when i tell him and he tells me it's to soon to tell him that. I can't hide how i feel about him i love him so much
2006-09-20 21:56:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think there's a time table for love.
I also don't think it's fair that denys your love...
it's yours to give freely.
If he doesn't want it...what are you supposed to do?
2006-09-20 21:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's more right than you think. What you're feeling isn't love, in it's truest sense. The emotions washing over you come before real love begins to grow. It's normal to feel this way, and very strong in every sense. You feel like you can't breathe, at times, it's so intense. That's not true love, though many will disagree. I'm not saying it can't grow into love, and in the right conditions, it often does. It takes time to grow and mature. What you have now isn't mature, and if not allowed to grow properly, can make you both miserable. No, you shouldn't hide what you feel about him. Try cooling it on the love talk for now. Just enjoy each others' company. Be each others' best friend. Grow naturally, in a healthy way. I'm not sure about what "just got together" means, but if it means you had sex, that could have complicated your relationship, putting a strain on your relationship that wasn't there before. Often, after doing so, your emotions take over, and you start thinking it must be love because of how you feel. Feelings and emotions come and go, and can't always be trusted. What's done is done. Cool it with that though, before you both regret the consequences. Just focus on being best friends. When you get things in their proper order, things end up in a happier place. So, with that...what's the question? Should you have said I love you right after the two of you "hooked up"? No. <*)))><
2006-09-20 22:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can show how you feel about him without actually saying the words. The old and very common saying is true, "Actions speek louder than words." There is no need to rush into saying I love you. Just take each day, week and month at a time. Before too long he may be the one saying those sweet words to you. But right now, he is probably right and it is too soon. You could easily be confusing love with affection or something else. So be smart and slow down a bit.
2006-09-20 22:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the words I love you can kinda freak a guy out sometimes ya know. you are looking at this from the very beginning of when you first met, you fell in love with him a long time ago, for him he is looking at this as if its from now. that's why he is saying its too early, explain yourself a bit better to him, talk to him and then he will understand more.
2006-09-20 21:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just afraid of his own feelings for you. If I was you I wouldn't stop telling him that I love him and hopefully one day soon he will tell you the same.
2006-09-20 21:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay , Two years enough to know if you love him or not , however, if he still insist that you should spend more time to know that , so he enjoying only sex with you , it seems you are so sexy for him ,
Try to teach him , how he can deal with a woman loving , or in love with him...
2006-09-20 22:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by sherif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*****I'll never love anyone the way*****
I LOVE YOU!
In loving you, I experience the happines,
the hurt, the feeling of forever
The need to be with you and love you....
It's all here inside of me...
Its you i always think about, its you i
always miss, and it always be with you,
because you are the one i love
To me love, means forever
No one will ever take your place or know me
as you do
You always know what im thinking and
what im feeling deep down
I'll never love anyone the way
I LOVE YOU!!!
2006-09-20 22:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by loveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you don't have to hide it just don't tell him just yet he just might not want to rush into it to fast i had the same situation but it was the other way around good luck
2006-09-20 22:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by becc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself would you still love him if he lost an arm, a leg, his face, and he had to eat and breathe through tubes. Would you die to protect him? Would you give your life for one day with him?
That's love. If you answered yes to those questions tell him that. Better yet, PROVE IT!
2006-09-20 21:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you sure told him that you do he should pick up on that think he is slow just show him you are in love with him good luck to the both of you
2006-09-20 22:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋