why do married couple sound so dissappointed.....?

Question

i dont mean to say everybody........but i have seen MAJORITY of them........y is it sooo..........i am single and i wanna know abt this before marriage........how can we make married life succesfull and interesting? plz only serious answers .....

Answer 1

Communication, respect, loyalty and honesty are a good start. marriage is hard work but can be wonderful. you have to keep working on it as time goes by you both change and have to take those changes into account.don't take each other for granted, always talk, talk , talk, and talk some more, talking solves a lot and often stops minor problems turning into major ones,respect each others opinions and don't try the I'm right your wrong situation, we are all entitled to our opinions whether one agrees with them or not.make time for each other, don't forget to do the little things that count.I could go on for hours but I hope this helps.

Answer 2

May be the disappointed couple

1. had too high expectations from one another
2. married for sex
3. are not mature enough to be ready for marriage
4. did not know that marriage is more 'give' than 'take'

Avoid these when you get married.

Realise

1. that first few months are crucial in building the relationship. This will pay dividends in the long run

2. that most important thing for any human being irrespective of education, background, money etc is EGO. Never hurt the ego of your partner

3. Be absolutely honest. This builds confidence and trust so crucial for a successful marriage.

4. build easy communication channels. You should be comfortable with each other under all situations.

5. Never try to reform your partner. Reformation has to be self realised. Accept whole heartedly the partner for what he/she is.

6. Likability is sufficient initially. A deep love will follow over a period of time.

After seeing so marriages failing in India now a days, initial ' living in ' if possible seem to be one solution which we should learn from some of the Aadivaasi tribes I have seen.

Answer 3

You yourself agreed that not all the married couples disappointed and this is true also. But majority of them are disappointed this is also true. Conflicting intrests are the main reasons for disappointments/ divorces.If one wants marriage to be a successful and happyone,then you must have a lot of patience as well as respect to your partner.

Answer 4

the only way you going to know abut this and learn about this and wanna to know about this then you have to get married and understand.

I married to my wife and I love her so much she is for me. I loyal to my wife so much that she does it the same thing smiling.

I was married first time and didn't last for 8 months left and remarried and wow much better will be 9 years in oct 31st 2006.....

Answer 5

first of all try to improving self confidence. reduce tension/exicitement.give not much importence to MotherOr sisters Married or not)try not insult Mother/father. respect them ®ard to theirs words. Take decission without hurting any one in an un baised manner. impose confidence to ur better half to tell freely good/bad to u. toset right or to give suggesition i f she is at fault at in good moods. with privacy.it is but human nature that the affections of son being taken away by just yesterdays entry. tell to elders " a hardest word in a smoothest way.

i do not know how far i m correct .
lisition to all exicite not ., examine pros &cons, good /bad

good/bad etc.
weigh the varacity ,. take decission.

hope ur thinking " Preach is Easier than to Do ?"

Answer 6

mejority of the people say they're unhappy, but not to the truest sense of it. it's just that they are not fully happy. doesn't mean they are unhappy.
so it's a thin line between being unhappy and not being happy.
in my opinion, no matter how much u research before marriage, even u're gonna find it how other married people are finding it.
best way for researching would be to have a partner of your choice, who can understand your feelings and you understand hers....etc. try to minimise being totally unhappy. but u'll be not fully happy, no matter what.

Answer 7

since they are still in the process of understanding each other.Accomodating another person into ones life takes even years...its not the same as sharing a room with your hostelmate
first learn to forgive and forget -that can clear any patch

Answer 8

Yes, not all, because i have a happy married with 2 kids. And to make your married life successful and interesting, someday, don't forget to say "i love you" always to your husband. Let yourself always look pretty for him and give him all he wants from you. Kiss him and hug him everytime he arrived from work.

Answer 9

long tale. properly instructed... (not by potential of you, i'm guessing) solid punchline. worth waiting for all the same. So thank you for that. I form of heard it (in my head) in a George Burns form. I in no way got here across him rather solid as a stand-up although. possibly he grow to be too American? Did he come over to the united kingdom plenty?

Answer 10

see its depend on u and ur spouse how lively u can live together
but its true that 2 a point u feel disaapointed and sad may be they cannot fufil their wishes together.and lack of ommunication