I myself am quite heavy chested...just looking 4 some female opinions on what they think.
My man loves my boobs but I wouldn't mind being a couple of cup sizes smaller.
Does tha nation prefer big melons??
And yes they are real!!
2006-09-20 21:21:31 · 19 answers · asked by fat_arse 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Everyone is different in their preferences - some guys like em big, some like small ones. Sure, it's an important consideration if your man likes the ones you have, but the most important considerations are how they make you feel about yourself, and if they are too large to be comfortable.
Large breasts can cause difficulties that guys don't realize, such as pain in the back, chest, and shoulders, skin irritations and eruptions, and sagging later in life. For some women, they can also be annoyingly in the way, embarrassing, and expensive. You're the one that has to live with them, whether he sticks around or not.
If you aren't happy with them, or if they cause you discomfort, you should talk with your man about it. Let him know that you want him to find you attractive, but that they make you unhappy or uncomfortable... or both. Then look into having a reduction, hopefully with his support.
2006-09-20 22:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard both from guys, stereotypically they love big ones. But Guys Ive talked to prefer more uh, managable ones (b-c). Really it doesn't matter. If you like them big, leave them that way. If they are too much of a pain in the back, and you want a reduction, I say go for it. And if your man leaves you just because you get smaller boobs, you he don't deserve you anyway.
2006-09-21 04:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by camero_angel 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I ended up wearing size H and was having all sorts of problems with my lower back, shoulders, and neck, and this was mostly because of the weight of my breasts. My doc' recommended a reduction because of the problems I was having. The specialist agreed because of the probs', and because the size of my breasts was out of proportion to the rest of me. When the operation was done they took almost 6lbs in weight away...my doc' said afterwards that he couldn't ever imagine what it would be like to be walking round with something the equivalent of a car battery strapped to his chest! I am still a size D, but I find now that people speak to me rather than to my breasts....
2006-09-21 04:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by sarch_uk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that a lot of men prefer bigger ones but, from a woman's viewpoint, I think smaller ones are better. Through pregnancies and weight gains, Ive experienced both. Small is more comfortable, easier to find clothes that fit and they dont sag as much when you are older.
2006-09-21 04:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by intenseone 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are looking for female opinions, but let me give you my male perspective: large or small breasts are all beautifull. Fake breasts are not, as they look, and MOST importantly, feel fake. As for breast reduction: your man loves them and that is an important consideration, but they are yours and if you are not comfortable with them talk to your doctor. Surgery can cause lots of complications and there is always potential danger when being placed under anesthesia.
Best wishes and good health!!
2006-09-21 04:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Atticus Flinch 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hard to generalise, men like ALL boobs, i have a small b cup, infact i had breast cancer and had a mastectomy and a reconstruction so one of them isnt real, i say as long as they are healthy who bloody cares weather they are a EE or a AAA....look after em.
2006-09-21 04:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most men (myself included) like a lady who's big up front. but if your not comfy with yourself talk to your G.P. and discuss your options. A friend of ours was rather full up front and her massivity was causing her back problems. she had a reduction and is doing rather well with her new self. I think it helped her self image also, she was shy about her appearance before but is more open these days.
2006-09-21 04:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes if i was the nation big boobed people would be president!
2006-09-21 17:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by marcus j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i love little boobs..not flat, but small B's are nice. i don't mind big ones either.
2006-09-21 04:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
since ur man love it,then keep it the way it is then since he is the only one who is gonna get a full view of it.
2006-09-21 04:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋