well the thing is i have a HUGE crush on one of my cousin. i know its wrong but i cant help it! well the thing is i wont even let him kiss me, so forget havin anything more. well i had a bf who did help me get over my cousin for a few days, but then i found out that he was a BIG flirt.so now i'm back to my cousin.plz do help me and do not leave any rude comments, and do not tell me to find somethin else to do!
2006-09-20 21:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I won't say any of the things you said not to say, but you know the answer yourself then. So what do you want advice for?
Just to keep this in mind, that based on emotions, a lot of people have gotten into messes they regret all their lives through. There would be no future in the path you are pursuing.
On the other hand, see the degree of closeness to your cousin and see if this is within the limits of permissiblity. If not, make the right decision based on your head not your heart.
You have one life to live, don't make a mess of it.
2006-09-20 21:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Minerva 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok First off,No one has a right or a reason to judge you,period.Now,having said that you understand that you shouldnt have those feelings and that is a start hun.I would suggest you go to couselling.I am not being rude by saying that,but i think they could help you understand those feelings and figure out why you are having them for your cousin.You understand they are wrong,but you could also be reading into feelings and mistaken them for just love for your cousin.You could be mistaken it as being in love with him,when in reality you just love him like a cousin.Either way,you should go to a counsellor,they can help you lay out your feelings and not just with this situation if you have something else on your mind,lay it all out.They can figure out why you are feeling the way you are and help you deal with it,understand it,and control it.Good luck.
P.S.Rememer,no one has a reason to judge you,so dont allow one to put you down for this.
2006-09-21 09:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sweety you yourself is saying its a crush and crushes are for small time. and secondly its part of life but do remmember its your cousin and in future only problems and nothing else if you are ready to face go with it or world is so big and you will find some1 more suitable for your self.all the best only you can helf yourself with right decision as you only no the whole thing so think abt too and fros and have a DECISION which is RIGHT for YOU.... ALL THE BEST
2006-09-21 05:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by tanishqa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is some parodox in your Q , U like your cousin but still U do not waant to make it a love affair.& now it seems like your coursin is also loving U well if U do not wish for anyone alse try start loving him as a brother, not a love bird.
2006-09-21 07:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have a crush but you wont let him touch you,then what is the crush bout.let him do it for you let him kiss you let him caress you let him do all that for you and feel the enjoyment of having a crush on someone and taking him for a joy ride,out of the world.
so what are you waitin for go ahead and do it.
2006-09-21 08:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are not first cousin, there is no problems, think about it and just have fun
2006-09-21 05:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by William L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does the word incest have any meaning for you? Look it up in the dictionary if you have to. I mean - please!
2006-09-21 04:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋