yes i knew from the start he is married and we cotinued because in time he said they are into anulment. but i discovered he is dating and calling another married woman in our province, with the pictures and phonebills i gathered, still my boyfriend denied because that woman was just a very close friend.they have pictures in a resort and ive noticed that they were thre for 3days and he strongly say they did not **** but just there for fun.wv been for 6years now.im 37 already...what must i do..i broke up with him and he said he love me so much.. and wht he committed wrong was befriending somebody and thats it.im hurt and in my heart i lov him but i really know that he betrayed me and i must let go..what must i do.now if he texes or calls..i still answer him but he seems to be cold..and i feel that my breaking up with him gave him a breath that he can be with her new girlfriend.the wife knows that i exist and theres another girl.please tell me things 4me to let go off him.please help me
2006-09-20 21:08:24 · 8 answers · asked by denise16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know you as a person but i can give you my opinion of what i read, (keep in mind i didn't read all of it). Listen woman, your headed straight into a whole world of hurt if you keep this going, for one he's married, which means commitment to someone else. He's feeding you a line of bullshit. You know this, right? To be blunt about he's using you for things his other half doesn't provide. I would get out with your hurt feelings right now before you get hurt more holding on to something you don't want and he is sure not going to provide the things you seek out of a man. Trust me on this one. You sound like you already know what to do, so follow your instincts, do whats best for you. You'll get past him and find the right person that will make you happy. Everything fall into place sooner or later, unfortunately sometimes later than sooner.
Take care,
Daymond
2006-09-20 21:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by daymond2218 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 37 and you sound like your 15.He's not your boyfriend ,he's a married man your having an affair with.Did you tell the wife about you and the other woman? He cheated on you..hello...did you really think you were that special,didn't he cheat on the one he promised to love and HONOR until death do them part.Six years and no divorce,oh,yes,I can see all kinds of reasons to not let go.Sorry,wish I could have been some help ,
2006-09-20 21:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guys is being a jerk, hes getting out of a relationship and I'm sorry to say this but you and the other chick are his releases, you are the rebound. he may not be doing this intentionally, but his divorce was probably really bad and there is probably A lotta tension between the wife and him. Just let him go and move on, unless he proves to you he wants something more. Make him prove himself to you!
2006-09-20 21:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Don't stop! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly,Silly girl, Get rid of this bloke,you don't touch anything with married in it unless it had 'use to be' before it.This bloke is a complete prat for not even breaking up with you before moving on.The chances are he didn't even tell you everything about his ex,your going to have to move on.Look at it this way he's just done you a favour and set you free to be with a really nice bloke,you just don't know it yet Good luck Linda.
2006-09-20 21:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Countess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dam you are 37 years old and your calling a married man that you broke up with your bf.....and then you accuse him of cheating on you... well you started this whole thing when you knew he was married, and you chose to still hang with him. so do not come crying on here. two wrongs do not make a right. i suppose your the one who told the wife everything. you are a bitter women. you need prozac girl. get yourself some help ok....
2006-09-20 21:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who wants to be with you. Don't settle for leftover love. I'm a polygamist, but we don't treat each other like are are receiving from this man. You deserve to be first in someone's life, not third, or whenever he has time for you.
2006-09-20 21:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a rug for this guy to walk on. He sounds like a total JERK.
2006-09-20 21:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee you sure are sad if you pick them people for partners.
Do you always allow yourself to be used by anyone who comes along?
2006-09-20 21:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Gingerbread Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋