this happened last month... my best friend and i had a sleepover when his parents were gone for business... we were there just drinking away and talking about girls in our college... well, long story short, when i woke up the next morning, i found him next to me with his boxers down on his knees and i was naked to my ****... we pretended that nothing ever happened but i still lost my virginity... to a guy... somethimes i think about it and yet at school i get totally turned on by the girl sitting next to me (yeah, my crush)...
does this make me homosexual or bi?
2006-09-20 21:03:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
hmm, i did remember mooning the neighbors part... how the heck did you know ;;>_>
no, i have no urges whatsoever to do it again
most certainly no, my a** does not hurt
yes, i'm very much attracted to this girl (read next question about how to get a girl who knows you as a friend to *like* you)
2006-09-21 02:56:59 · update #1
As you were drunk and do not remember it who says you were willing? You probably were totally passed out and for that matter maybe drugged. I would say that you are straight but really need to rethink drinking as you obviously cannot handle that. Good luck!
2006-09-20 21:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First how do you know that you truly did anything? A lot of guys get naked when they are drunk but nothing happens. But you your a** hurt the next day something might have happen. But your body won't do anything if it doesn't want to so if something did happen you prob liked it. But ask yourself this question do I feel like in my heart could I fall in love with a man? If not than you are not homosexual. Maybe you just like sex.
2006-09-20 21:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by gentsocar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It is very normal for both men and women to experiment sexually with the same gender person as themselves. As hard as this sounds, try not to be embarrassed. I'll bet that at least 75-90 per cent-um of your college student body have had a same sex experience.
Stop drinking. You may think it is cool now...but wait until you are diagnosed with Korsakoff's syndrome. Die from binge drinking or kill another person. Because you still won't stop drinking....
So stop now before the addiction is really serious. Do the teachers at your college really allow you to write without proper grammatics? "i" should be capitalized...you have two fragmented sentences, one dangling modifier, etc.
If you walked into my office right now looking for employment you would not get a job with this office simply due to the syntax and semantics used .
2006-09-20 21:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, technechly and not to sound pushy or a know it all on this subject. But coming from a gay person. If you only had Sexual [intercourse in a way] with a guy. Then it doesn't count you as gay or bi. Unless you are sexually attracted to the same sex. Or find yourself looking at the same sex more. OR if you look at both sexes equally it makes you bi. Like fantasizing being with a guy. Than being with a girl. But if you are not sexually attracted to the same sex you are therefore Straight.
2006-09-20 21:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by hollywood [hobo]â?¢ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't necessarily mean that you are gay or bi. You don't seem to know for sure what actually happened, let alone if you consented or enjoyed it. For all you know, you passed out while mooning the neighbors. You may be straight or bi but this incident doesn't have any bearing on your orientation at all. You are definitely not all gay because you have strong feelings for a girl.
2006-09-20 21:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No; it doesn't make you gay or bi. It's actually normal for young guys to experiment out of curiosity...to see how it feels or whatever.
Follow your heart/crush on the girl. And, don't worry about what happened. If it was unprotected, however; you may want to get tested for AIDS.
2006-09-20 21:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do anything once is not a problem, You inquisitive and need to experiment, If you find yourself swinging one more to the other, that's when you can start deciding which way you want to go. But in the mean time enjoy the ride.
2006-09-21 00:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by weeroppadc2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry and simply dont think abt it.
u didnt knw what happened with you coz u were drunk
ur str8 u dont think that u are a gay it was coz u werent urself when that happened u shuld kick ur pals *** coz it was his mistake not urs.
and i would say u dont need to think abt it . do something else indulge in other activities rather thinking abt it and tearing ur hair off i think it is something that doesnt require any attention. ur a big boy and u should knw these things do happen. i hope u'll get over it since its done and over.
i wish u best of luck bbye
2006-09-20 21:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by vicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at the very least bi-sexual. I do not think you told the whole story either...you do not sleep through anal sex..so I would hazard a guess it was not the first 'experiment' you have had nor will it be the last.
2006-09-20 21:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sucks. You are probably not homo/bi because you were drunk! One time I got drunk and made out with a guy (who is straight and both of us don't remember) and everyone says we did but we still deny it. Watch yourself now haha!
2006-09-20 21:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by eminem526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋