Positives: new insight, new scope, broader frame of mind; you are imbued with the values of another culture, and you will always be a better person for it. You are opening yourself to the possibility that love knows not color or creed, and it is a glorious realization, because many individuals never come to realize this.
Negatives: religious differences that may interfere with the way you were raised and ultimately the way you may raise children if you were to have any, different customs; others who do not know you may judge you in ways you can't comprehend. Pay no attention to them - surround yourself with the people who see how deep your relationship is, regardless of culture. We live in a multicultural world in which the trend is homogeneity, but you will love who you love - always remember that!
2006-09-20 20:27:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Wow, there are a few.
Language, location of family , food, values, religion, traditions, (the way holidays are celebrated). financial (many times people from other countries have a huge responsibility to send money back to their country and this is just like adding a bill into your budget.) The role of female vs. male
My husband is hispanic and I do not speak spanish, he has many many friends that do not speak english so right away I am not a part of their conversations.
He enjoys hot foods (spicy) or authentic mexican food which I can not eat.
He has a macho attitude because of his culture.
He was raised Catholic and I am Christian
We are kind of like ying and yang he is a VERY HARD worker but unless you really love this person these other issues are very hard to deal with. We have been married 16 years and these are no longer big issues, but they sure have been through our marriage.
2006-09-20 20:26:36
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answered by whattheheck 4
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