She is 21 and she has a 4 year old daughter....over the last year the father of her daughter has gotten some other girl pregnant, given her an STD and threatens her all the time. What should she do?
2006-09-20 20:07:36 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Assuming the daughter is the only reason she's still with him?
Even so, he's certainly not setting a good example for the daughter, and she needs to do what's best for not only her, but the daughter as well.
She needs to get out NOW, and report the STD.
2006-09-20 20:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is better of getting an AVO out on him and starting fresh she does not need to have someone like that around her child he may be the father which in her case just the sperm Donner but she is the one trying to raise her child with out he bad influence that he has. And if he has STDs she should have no contact with him as he may wont more sex with her and she does not need that tell her run and start a knew life by the sounds of thing she deserves it.
2006-09-21 03:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by sweety yhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to let the police know. there must be documentation...paper-trail of problems occurring. this way if something really bad happens or if there's just so many little problems, she can leverage that against him.
other things she can do...divorce him, move, and never just live alone with daughter. live with a family member/friend or at least live close to a couple. consider having a big dog around.
as a friend...hard for u to do anything but be supportive in her decisions and be available as a resource. u can't make her do anything u know...
2006-09-21 03:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by chloe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how he was threatening her, that could make a difference. But through the years I've learned that a bad relationship always gets worse, never better. She's still young enough to enjoy her life. GET OUT NOW
2006-09-21 03:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the word is Divorce
& the f***ing man must be punished.
Ur frnd must think about the daughter & move on in life
2006-09-21 03:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by miss_rimi1989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
std she`s stuck with that disease, she should get professional help, like have him on restraining order to keep away.... std and pregnancy can cause birth deformency go check with sexual health centre for full check upbefore its too late..... pray to god
2006-09-21 03:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some kind of legal action against him
2006-09-21 03:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by naenae5243 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs legal justice
2006-09-21 03:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by nita_desai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce. better for the both of them.
2006-09-21 03:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should get legal protection and dump him
2006-09-21 03:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by A.K.A SASA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋