ppl i seed some serious advice. 7 mths ago i decieved my parents n got mariied to dis gal thinking dat she wud make my life 4 me. now i am a victim of domestic violence. This girl have verbally abused me n my family n physically abused me. She even went to the extent of calling my mom a whore and me a son of a whore. She has moved out of the city but still torments me. I am a simple guy froma well to do family. My mom n dad r very depressed. I have lost my mental peace n dis is affecting my work. She calls me n abuses me n my family n den tells me dat she will not leave, totally broken my self esteem. i need advice ppl..............plz o plzzzzzzzz help me.
2006-09-20 19:59:23 · 11 answers · asked by raving_metal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh my god change ur phone number or hang down wenever u hear her voice tell ur parents to do so. u cant accept abuses she going beyond limit,wen she'll have no means of communication with u she'll probably leave ur life. u have to react my dear.Its high time,how come ur accepting so much insult and on top of dat allow her to insult ur parents.BE a man.
2006-09-20 20:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother was a victim of such kind of a woman. I believe everything you are saying....for some reason your desperation seems genuine. What can you do? It's been only 7 months since you guys got married? Is she mentally ill maybe? You need to seek legal advice...get a restraining order! Ask your parents for forgiveness....and tell them what's going on. Blood is thicker than....well, you know how the saying goes. Your parents love you....hopefully unconditionally- the way it should be. Tell them that you made a big mistake. Ask them for help. You need it badly.
2006-09-20 20:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer and get a divorce. Then go to the police station and file for harassment and assault. U may also want to get a restraining order although in some cases a restraining order does not work. Change your number or better yet, move to a different location.
2006-09-20 20:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you should be strong to deal such kind of wife. Divorce can do anyone but you have to do deferent form that, discuss with her politely and commendably, tell her the meaning of marriage, give her the time to understand you, if possible let here study Islamic Religious Book which will clearly explain the meaning of marriage and true relationship between husband and wife, I am sure she will change her mind. But don't beat her as well as give the chance her to beat you.
2006-09-20 20:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by SAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you seriously need to pull your pants up and take a stand. Don't let some lowlife skank ruin your relationship with others especially your parents! Don't take no s*** from no one! This doesn't require calling the cops, or filing charges, or getting restraining orders; it requires you telling the ***** to back up! I feel for you man, but only to a certain point. You need to be a man and kick that skank to the curb!
2006-09-20 20:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by browndownlyricist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have enough evidents then file a police report and get a restrainting order. Change your phone numbers or put caller ID and answer machine at home.
Then file for a divorce and get back you life.
You are a guy and make decision quick.
2006-09-20 20:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get a lawyer and start divorce proceedings.
2. Get a restraining order to protect yourself and your family against harassing phonecalls, etc.
3. Grow up before you ever contemplate marriage again.
2006-09-20 20:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
restraining order, and keep a diary of all her actions, call the police everytime she gets out of hand to have a record of these incidents to take to court. start divorce procedings immediately. put up a security camera to catch her if she does damage to your or your parents property, or if she gets all psycho outside your houses. and all this evidence should help her get as little out of you in the divorce also.
2006-09-20 20:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Miss B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce and a restraining order. Noone need to have someone in their life that makes them unhappy.
2006-09-20 20:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by M. J. B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married a girl assuming she is making a life four you? Come on.................
You are contradicting yourself by saying she moved out of the city and on the other hand she wont leave.
Lame!
2006-09-20 20:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋