2006-09-20 19:59:01 · 17 answers · asked by Bambi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go out together more, talk more...especially
2006-09-20 20:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk with each other, get some private time, or maybe if you two are disagreeing about something and need a seperate opinion go to a counselor, it usually takes only one or two sessions because we tend to spill our guts when we have a person that is there to listen and give some guidance. My husband and I went to a counselor and it was shocking the things that he said that I had no idea where bothing him. Most churches have free counselors, and if not almost all insurances will pay for a counselor with you paying your co-pay. It will be well worth it. you would not be posting on here if you did not want help. =) GOOD FOR YOU
2006-09-21 03:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all communication is key to resolving problems. If you need an objective person to help you both see the problems, then I would suggest a marriage counselor. Marriage is a lot of work and it takes a lot of effort and commitment to make it work and stay married. Learning to communicate effectively and learning to compromise helps a great deal in resolving marital issues.
2006-09-21 18:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what is the cause...whether its another woman or something else altering the relationship...Once the problem(s) are addressed then talk about what needs to be done in order to keep the marriage stable....Do the things for each other that you two once enjoyed before marriage...Plan quiet evenings alone where you two can rekindle flames.Let each other know that you love each other..Maintain a positive attitude to draw out the negative conflict.Stay married and work things out, because you two married each other with flaws...
2006-09-21 03:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by SweetKisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is probably the biggest downfall of marriages today along with finances. The only thing I can tell you is to both sit down and discuss not yell or argue, but actully talk openly about your fears, concerns, problems, whatever then talk about how to fix them to where they are liveble by both parties. Here's hoping things will work out for you, and don't forget to remember why you each fell in love with each other in the beginning and draw from that.
2006-09-21 03:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a marriage counselor. You are not saying the nature of your problems. Don't know. Communication problems, maybe?
2006-09-21 03:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on what kind of problems they are. If you need to see a marriage counselor,then by all means, do it. Anything is worth trying to save your marriage. Try everything, see what the root problems are. good luck.
2006-09-21 03:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a session of "Marriage Encounter" but only if you BOTH want to make things better.
2006-09-21 03:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by M. J. B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each of you write your problems and thought into a paper then give it to your spouse. After reading you too burn these 2 papers. Try it!
2006-09-21 03:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by sunson06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
elaborate on the problems you 2 are having
trying discussing the problems you are having and coming up with a mutaul solution to them. explain to him that you want to see his point of view with things and you expect the same from him.
2006-09-21 03:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by sx_rx_rocknroll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to sit down and talk things out.get to the root of the problem.sometimes one problem leads to others and they just build up.and try not to harbor bad feelings.you have to let the bad feelings go or they build up too and that's hard to get over.and you have to say "you hurt me when you said or did...."and always respect each other
2006-09-21 03:22:14 · answer #11 · answered by cee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋