My ex recently followed my son and I back to California. I knew he was coming back to be near his son but then he decided to marry the first random girl he came across who also has two children of her own. In the mix of all this I was sent to Iraq and had no choice but to leave him w/ his father and the "new girl". Until this I have always been the primary parent in my son's life. My ex is trying to reverse what my son has been used to for the past few years and wants me out of the picture almost completely so he can have his brady bunch life with her and the kids. Until he met her I couldnt even get him to take our son overnight because he always had more important things to do. Ive never tried to keep our son from him and Ive been rather nice about our situation prior to all this. I dont think its fair that he's trying to use the deployment and the military against me(even has it in the court papers)when I have been in for seven years and deployed only once. Should I be worried?
2006-09-20 19:55:09 · 2 answers · asked by cantstandmyex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Did you have a Family Care Plan in place for when you Deployed? If so and it didn't list your Ex, then your child should be with that person.
Contact JAG and see what they can tell you. They have the Information on how this should be handled.
Good luck and stay safe..
HOOAH!
2006-09-24 19:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible, but to be honest, do you think that your deployment should be ignored in a custody case? You did leave his son with him, that certainly would be an indication to the Courts that he's a stable parent. Military deployments aren't for kids and you have no idea how many more times and for how long you will be deployed. Sorry to be so honest.
2006-09-21 06:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋