After three years together, my boyfriend, who I love with all my heart is becomming distant. This has happened out of the blue and I do not understand. How can I tell him how much I love him and how much I need him. It feels like we're falling apart and im breaking inside. Please help me.
2006-09-20 19:24:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him how much you love him. let him decide. u can't force him to love u the way u love him.. maybe he needs space. talk to him.. love is not how u listen but how u underatand. it's not how u forget but how to hold on..good luck!
2006-09-20 19:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by ok 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, When he comes in from work have a nice cooked meal waiting for him, turn the tv off and put some music on. turn the lights down low or off. Light some candles.Have a nice bath before, put some make up on, pamper yourself for a while, that way you will be feeling good in yourself. You should like you love him dearly but you also need to love yourself! You both need to talk but with no distractions. Let him see you looking and feeling good, men like confident women. Hope this helps, all the best, TJx
2006-09-21 02:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell him just that! Its obvious you know how you feel but don't know whats going on with him. 3 years is a long time. Its possible he's been growing distant for some time and its not possible to clear or help things out. Good Luck
2006-09-21 02:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by staticgear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to talk.Tell him of your fears,the fact that you are not feeling too good about recent distancing from him and your confusion over the matter.Ask him if there is anything that you can help him with-is it a work related problem,family,medical-"a problem shared is a problem halved" after all!You could tell him that,for a relationship to be good,strong and tight between you,you both need to be honest,sincere,and open with each other-with no skeletons in cupboards!Tell him that you are there for him,but HE needs to be there for you too.Best of:-)
2006-09-21 03:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try and do something out of the ordinary with him like something he likes. For example football car racing other things he likes. try going out for dinner and doing something special for just you two it sounds like you two are just going through a ruff patch and yous need to rekindle your love for each other and remember what made you fall in love with each other its hard and you need to sit down and do more with each other and talk.
2006-09-21 02:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by sweety yhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i hate that kind of sh*t cause u know its someone else but sit him down an have a heart to heart with him dont crack no smiles look him in the eyes an just be straight an firm with him good luck boo
2006-09-21 02:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by naenae5243 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never have a good relationship if you cannot communicate with each other. You need to talk to him about this.
2006-09-21 02:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and see how he feels about your relationship.
2006-09-21 02:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk with him and tell him how you feel.
2006-09-21 02:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋