I was talking with few of my uncle's friends.They all talk about how it's sad he doesn't have a woman in his life. One of his friend say that she have asked him about that, she say that my uncle say if the woman is beautiful he would get marry. However my uncle is really ugly (tall and very slender), have unbelievable terrible temper, never show any affection to anyone, treat people badly, cannot carry out good consveration, hardly get out to do anything fun, is very flithy, and doesn't reallly have moneys.
I couldn't believe that he think he have any room to be picky. I don't understand why some people think they have right to be picky?
2006-09-20 19:17:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
About beauty and beast, I think you don't realize something. I say he have really really bad temper. One time he lose his lighter, he got all frenzy, break many things in house, yell, stomps his feet, bangs his fist on table, etc... This was very minor thing, not a big thing! It get 10 time worse!
He cannot even really carry out intelligent consveration. I have tried, he does't really talk that much.
He doesn't believe in anything comfort or fun. He never get out, he work about 4 or 5 hours a day then sit home and watch television ALL day. He does't go out and eat or anything.
So we're not exactly talking about a ugly man with amazing loving sweet personality.
2006-09-20 19:29:44 · update #1
Because culture has taught people that women who don't look like fashion models are worthless and ugly to everyone...Case in point, looks don't matter, and considering your uncle is ugly inside, and would be ugly to anyone with any shred of intelligence even if he was "good looking", he isn't deserving of even an "ugly" woman...
2006-09-20 19:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by xcrimsonxphoenixofxhellx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are that way and there's nothing you can do about it. from my experience, it mostly men. they are old, grumpy, annoying and still expect to get a blond model with a great job
I don't know, maybe his parents boasted his ego and now he believes he is a great catch
or maybe he sets his standards so high to make sure he won't get any woman because he actually doesn't want one for some reason
2006-09-21 02:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by avril r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying but I'm going to take your uncle's side on this one. He still has every right to want whatever he wants. Never know, he might have something to offer someone. Remember Beauty and the Beast?
2006-09-21 02:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Haha. Maybe he just doesn't realize how he looks and acts on the outside. It is sad because if he's extremely picky he'll never get anybody!
2006-09-21 02:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Such a disturbed person should not be encouraged to marry and bring misery on another person. Discuss this situation with a doctor or a spiritual guide.
2006-09-21 03:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could just be his way of ruling himself out of having a good woman but yet looking like a good guy before his peers.
2006-09-21 02:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly, I think these people are in a disillusion state. If they have no friend who has the patience and guts and their trust to "work" with on these issues, they may remain this way for a..long..long... time.
2006-09-21 03:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me neither.
Take him out to social dances or whatever until he gently gets the point that he's not so desirable.
2006-09-21 02:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by smci 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋